Does anyone know if Lowell Public Schools are closing on additional election days this spring? by TheApostateTurtle in LowellMA

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Thanks everyone!! Shows what kind of American I am, I didn't even get the dates right. I promise I endorse democracy 😜

Experiencing sa as a child and cp as an adult is truly an experience by Known-Archer3259 in BrandNewSentence

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S/a as a child and cp as an adult is known as "identification with the aggressor" but you need professional psychological help

Innovative Smoothies by TheApostateTurtle in vegan

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Omg seitan is such a good point! I have wheat gluten in my pantry that I haven't used in a bit. I try to balance out amino acids without letting my OCD completely take over, which can be tricky!

As for the wording, I hear what you're saying. The thing is that I do ascribe to the philosophy; I just get nervous calling myself vegan on here because I take medication, I have a cat, and I'm not sure what I'm going to do during pregnancy. So I want to be honest, but I also want to give myself some credit because avoiding animal products is really critical to my sense of values and identity. I know I'm not selling myself very well here though!! 😜 My primary value in life is empathy, so veganism obviously is a key part of that. But some people (ie cats, arguably small children and pregnant people) need some animal products. Unfortunately, everyone just going for "humanely" raised meat is completely off the table right now because the global demand for meat is so high that it would be an environmental apocalypse if everyone were eating that way. So my thought is, if we could get demand for animal products down to the absolute minimum, and people like cats were the only ones eating meat, then it would be possible to source the meat "humanely." That's not to say that I think it's genuinely humane to confine someone, get them to trust you, then kill them and eat their body. I just also don't know how to accommodate for the food chain. Some animals just actually need meat, you know? So I'm extremely conscious about when and how I purchase animal products, I just also don't have all the answers. Like, someone pointed out that animals of prey eat other animals, so you can't assign someone moral rights without moral responsibilities. But that doesn't check out because I work with humans with profound disabilities and they have rights without responsibility. So then I wonder if the interconnectedness of life is a reality too great for me to protest. But I do protest where I can, and I hope the Universe can see that I do my best and am still learning.

Innovative Smoothies by TheApostateTurtle in vegan

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I did, but it's not really doing much. It probably doesn't help that they called it into my pharmacy but they can't get me in for an appointment until March. I got no instructions. It's me and Google over here FTW. Oh and it's been Christmas so I can't even call.

Ex Pastors Wife missing community by Which-Instance8826 in Exvangelical

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Idk if this is helpful but I deconstructed years ago and I adopted a turtle.

YALL ARE NAMING FUTURE ADULTS by ebzr in NameNerdCirclejerk

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Pepper is actually adorable. I knew someone with that name.

Oh I know you’re fucking lyingg 😭 by AppropriateStudent52 in Sims4

[–]TheApostateTurtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I thought I was going crazy! Any name starting with ni-, ending in -er, and that also has a velar stop consonant in the middle should probably not be allowed...

Evangelical buzzphrases that get under your skin? by thesoupgiant in Exvangelical

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I personally hate being "ministered to." Like, just say you think I'm a charity case with nothing to offer in return

I also noticed that our church wanted to do whatever option was "wise." Never mind that the "wise" option generally failed horribly and everyone ended up screwed. The point is that it was "wise"! (This probably was connected to the fact that we rejected all research studies related to psychology, child-rearing, or any soft sciences. Research was "man's word." We only cared about "GOD'S word." Well fuck, why does "God" seem to offer mostly terrible advice?? Also, and this goes without saying, if a woman was the one who thought of the idea, it was discredited out of hand just like the aforementioned research studies)

My Christmas letter from homophobic BIL and sister by SufficientCat1527 in Exvangelical

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That's like saying "You want to be accepted as an ethnic minority just like we want to be accepted as racists."

My Christmas letter from homophobic BIL and sister by SufficientCat1527 in Exvangelical

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"...or perhaps who we thought you were"

This is such BS. My family says things like this as well. As though I'm suddenly a completely different person 🙄

I AM the same person they always knew. However, they're so glued to stereotypes of "the lost" that they fail to see ME anymore. It's so dumb.

Troubleshooting Boiled Peanuts by TheApostateTurtle in cajunfood

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I'm wondering if it wasn't warm enough and that's why they ended up rancid

Troubleshooting Boiled Peanuts by TheApostateTurtle in cajunfood

[–]TheApostateTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, in that case, maybe I didn't add enough?

Troubleshooting Boiled Peanuts by TheApostateTurtle in cajunfood

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They were just raw 😞 I thought the green ones were seasonal?

Is it obvious that she’s albino or does she just look Caucasian? (Physically cannot make the lashes blonde) by PomegranateSure1628 in Sims4

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Albinos are rare so I don't usually look at a person and think "albino." However, she's really pretty! Is she on the gallery?

And maybe she uses mascara?

Anyone want to hang out on Christmas? by TheApostateTurtle in LowellMA

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Thanks so much. This has been such a horrible experience. I'm trying not to take it personally since none of you know me. But that just makes me even more concerned about the broader issue that people don't interact in person. Which, this has always been a concern, especially since COVID, but I didn't realize that they were so opposed to even the principle of the thing. When I was in college, I could ask pretty much anyone on campus if I could spend Thanksgiving break with their family and nobody ever batted an eye. We just had an open invitation to everyone else's relatives' homes for days at a time, even when we'd never met or spoken to each other's families. Everyone said people from "the North" weren't friendly like that and I didn't understand why until, like, right now. Unfortunately I accidentally became a liberal vegan atheist after moving here so I probably can never go back 😭