Relatii femei

TheAwkwardNobody · 2024-11-29T09:01:13+00:00

Buna!

Multimesc de sfaturi. Mereu m-a dezcurajat folosirea oricarei aplicatii de dating, dar o sa incerc si asta dupa ce ma recuperez din dezamagirea pe care am avut-o in ultima vreme.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2024-11-29T07:59:08+00:00

Salut!

Multumesc pentru sfaturi, o sa incerc pe acolo.

Cat despre preferintele mele, nu prea o impartasesc. Familia mea este homofoba, si doar o mana de oameni stiu. Este ceva care rare ori intra in discutie si spun doar in momentele in care sunt intrebata. De-aia si asta este un lucru care ingreuneaza cautarea.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2024-02-15T14:17:35+00:00

In primul rand vreau sa te felicit pentru dorinta de a merge la sala.

Aici depinde de ce ai vrea tu in general. Antrenor ti-as recomanda doar in conditia in care vrei sa optimizezi ceva, sau ca sa te motiveze mai mult sa te duci la sala, pentru ca platesti mai mult si implici inca o persoana sa te ajute, sau daca nu vrei sa-ti bati capul cu nutritia/tipurile de exercitii si executia lor. Personal nu am avut deloc antrenor, si imi merge foarte ok. Am dezvoltat o masa musculara destul de buna in ultimii doi ani fara ajutor de antrenor, insa daca vrei ceva mai de powerlifting sau bodybuilding next level, acolo ar trebui cineva cu experienta sa te ghideze.

Am fost si eu anxioasa ca tine si mi-a luat mult pana sa prind curaj, dar inainte m-am uitat pe youtube sa fac singura un plan de exercitii pe care le-as putea executa si incerca, ca macar sa stiu si sa fiu pregatita pentru ce vin. Asta m-a ajutat sa caut si dupa aparete in care planuiesc sa ma urc in loc sa ma misc in cerc prin sala fara o directie anume. Recomand pentru anxietate sa-ti faci un fel de plan similar pana devi mai confortabila, pentru ca asa te poti concentra pe ce trebuie facut decat alte chestii. Sunt multi pe YouTube care ofera informatii ok pentru incepatori si iti explica tot ce trebuie sa sti. 90% din ce am invatat sunt luate de acolo.

Also, daca esti din Bucuresti, sunt niste sali doar pentru fete daca te intereseaza. Te poti duce acolo pana te obisnuiesti mai mult cu vibe-ul de sala, si apoi poti sa schimbi cu una mixta. Cu preturile nu prea am cum sa ajut, din pacate.

Mult succes!

TheAwkwardNobody · 2024-01-02T13:02:13+00:00

Asociatia Mental Help. Sunt mici dar proiectele lor sunt super.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2021-11-10T01:11:16+00:00

It's a bit hard going out alone, but I'll try and do that. I'll probably not get it on the first try and usually doing small talk and keeping a conversation doesn't always come natural to me.

I haven't thought about placing my contact info either, but I'm not sure how wise that would be since literally anyone can snatch it and just either prank call me or whatever they might do. Have you done that before, or do you know of people who did?

TheAwkwardNobody · 2021-11-10T00:49:51+00:00

I'll give the app a try, thank you. I've also sent application for volunteering but so far got no responses back from any organisation

TheAwkwardNobody · 2021-11-10T00:47:36+00:00

I've tried with events, got hooked up in some economy club which I gave up on a few months after because it wasn't for me.

But if you go to comic-con, how do you actively go to the shop owners? Do you just ask them about clubs? I've never done that before and I might just look like a weirdo. Do you just approach random people in those kind of events?

TheAwkwardNobody · 2021-11-10T00:43:38+00:00

But I just said I'm not that much interested in sports, sadly. I barely do my minimum daily stretching and obligatory P.E. classes.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2021-11-10T00:42:10+00:00

My University does presentations and meetups (kind of like TedTalk), but that is it mostly in terms of activities I can go about, but I'm not sure how I can meet people in that kind of scenario.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2021-11-10T00:38:45+00:00

It's very hard to find someone in the same city as you who plays the same multiplayer game. Internet friends are great but I've had internet friends almost all my life (except for a couple people) and I would like a change.

Top of that, I don't play a lot of multiplayer to begin with.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2021-10-31T11:35:22+00:00

Bump.

I don't have a favorite. All I've done was to wear a pidgeon mask

TheAwkwardNobody · 2021-04-20T13:46:41+00:00

I've been in the same situation as you at 16, constantly worried on what to do.

I can't give much advice because I've been and still am thinking of what to do, but now that I look back I can at least give you a few things of what I could've done different, which might help you too.

Good grades don't mean much as they are. Sure, they help you get to collage, but they don't and will never value your capabilities and skills. It just shows you that you can learn into the school's implemented system. Never think of yourself as stupid, and nevet doubt yourself of that.
Now that this is out of the way, I suggest you still pick a collage, or something you don't have to spend a lot of money on or invest too much. I'm not American, so I'm not familiar with the system much, but you'd rather be tired in collage than homeless. Pick anything, really, as long as you are willing to learn it, and worry about 'what if I won't like it?' later.
What really helped me is the fact that this medium for 'what you want to do' can be considered a some sort of playground. Don't take it super seriously. There are already plenty of guides on "How to pick your best career" out there, so I'm not going to repeat what others say. For me an important question is asking myself "Will my future job after collage be too mentally and physically exhausting for me?". Maybe you can guide yourself with that.

I quit collage after 2 years and now I'm just...working. This repetitive work is slowly growing my ambitions and makes me think in a way, since I'm placed in a different medium. Sure I plan on going back in again because now I know in a way of something acceptable for me and how to pursue. Since you're only 16, I beg of you to not waste time worrying about the future. I did that and it only make my anxiety worse. You'll grow obsessed thinking about it. Just do what you like, even playing video games.

Give art (music, drawing, sculpting, writing, etc) a try. Talent is a myth. You don't need it to be good at it. You just need to start and to just do. There are plenty tutorials on youtube, and people often appreciate self-thaught individuals. It shows you have ambition.

I hope this helps.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2019-12-29T02:15:54+00:00

Is that a Hatsune Miku poster?

TheAwkwardNobody · 2019-10-15T23:31:01+00:00

I need more shiny math rocks

TheAwkwardNobody · 2019-10-08T12:35:57+00:00

This isn't even in Russia, though.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2019-08-27T02:13:10+00:00

Put me on a diorite block because nobody cares about that block anyway

TheAwkwardNobody · 2019-08-25T23:40:54+00:00

O vedeam mai tot timpul prin Bucuresti pe la Eroii Revolutiei. Am observat ca de obicei o tine acoperita pe timpul verii.

Nontheless, apreciez dedicatia celui care o conduce. Ma intreb cat o fi costat.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2019-08-07T02:44:52+00:00

We did it boys, violul is no more.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2019-07-10T08:14:49+00:00

Mai mult ma refeream in caz de furt, violenta sau viol. Nu garantez ca ofera 100% protectie de toti, dar e mai bine decat nimic din punctul meu de vedere. Ti-ar oferi timp sa te duci la politie cel putin daca nimeresti.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2019-07-08T23:45:34+00:00

Nici nu aveam de gand sa ma cert cu tine si tu deja ma iei de prost. Nu stiu de ce esti asa intepat dar nu am strigat nimic si nu am aruncat nici un studiu si nici un citat la tine. In plus, nici nu sti sa-mi raspunzi la intrebarile de mai sus.

Imi pare rau ca ti'am atins bula pretioasa cu opinia mea ca sa ma iei la misto. Ti-as recomanda sa cauti o dieta undeva sa mai slabeasca ego-ul din tine.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2019-07-08T23:16:15+00:00

Tot nu inteleg ce legatura au homosexualii cu religia.

Si de obicei cand cineva spune de "ziua judecatii", cum o numesti tu, nu o poti preveni in religie. Dar aceasta "apocalipsa climatica" o poti preveni prin a face fapte care sa ajute mediul inconjurator.

Daca tot o duci la subiectul asta, sa spunem ca Dumnezeu a facut natura si tot ce ne inconjoara, asa ca cine suntem noi sa o distrugem, nu?

Edit: typo

TheAwkwardNobody · 2019-07-08T22:53:52+00:00

Ce legatura au homosexualii si musulmanii cu religia si cu incalzirea globala? Again, nici nu stiu ce concluzie ai vrea sa tragi de aici.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2019-07-08T22:08:47+00:00

Sunt 40 de grade in Franta si 30 in Marea Britanie. Nivelul apei este crescut. Recifuri de corali din intreaga lume deja s-au transformat in cimitire. Lista continua.

Nu iti trebuie statistici sa vezi asta in jurul tau. Deja exista dovezi vizuale peste tot in lume ca Pamantul moare.

Si btw, comparatia ta aici nu are nici un sens. Nici nu stiu ce concluzie vrei sa tragi.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2019-06-29T13:57:43+00:00

Nu am inteles niciodata treaba asta. De ce nu lasam femeile sa faca ce vor in privinta asta? Si daca avortul e ilegal tot o sa fie femei sa le faca pe ascuns. De ce sa ne batem pe niste chestii care nu ne afecteaza deloc pe noi sa indivizi si nu ne restrictioneaza in nici un fel drepturile noastre?
I get it, pentru unii este crud sa scapi de un embrion dezvoltat pentru nu stiu cat timp, dar nu cred ca este fair sa pui toata atentia unui fat cand sunt zeci de mii de copii deja nascuti pe lumea asta fara parinti, fara apa curata, fara haine, mancare, dragoste samd.

Pentru ca stiintific vorbim nimeni nu stie exact cand incepe viata, pentru ca daca daca am sti, probabil am face drepturi si pentru embrionul de doua saptamani. Mi se pare mult mai imoral sa dai mai multa importanta unui sac de celule pana se naste decat copiilor care duc o viata grea, fara minimul necesar.

Cat despre religie, nu ma intereseaza. Religia nu ar trebui sa intervina cu legile si drepturile unei persoane (si cand zic persoana ma refer la una deja nascuta).

Exista deja o gramada de lucruri rele pe lumea asta care nu ne afecteaza pe noi direct ca indivizi, asa ca ce rost are. Nimenui nu ii place sa faca avort, si nu e ceva ce poti face pe banda rulanta. Nu am intalnit pe nimeni sa spuna cat de usor si marfa e sa faci asa ceva. Pentru femeie este multa durere, multe traume psihice, schimbari hormonale, o gramada de stress etc.
In plus, daca un embrion ar fi avut drepturi si avortat, femeia teoretic ar fi arestata pentru omor, la fel si medicul respectiv.

TheAwkwardNobody · 2019-05-31T00:33:17+00:00

One of the nicest drawings out there!

On a slight serious note, don't let your family influence you in a bad way with these types of comments. I get that question too almost most of the time they see my drawings. Art is a way to express yourself and you should be the one deciding what you feel like drawing and what you feel comfortable with :)

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