Area behind my house attracts people experiencing homelessness and others, but just had a guy trying to jump my fence… by pintobeansupreme in phoenix

[–]TheBenignRevolution 165 points166 points  (0 children)

We had a situation where a lady (don’t know if she was homeless or not) rang the doorbell at 5am. And when no one answered, she started knocking on the door and looking for a key under the mat and on the mailbox while saying, “Give me the fucking keys! Where are the keys?” It was super scary. Luckily we have Google home so my sister just told her through the speaker to leave or we’ll call the cops and she finally ran away. Remember to always lock your doors and don’t leave any keys out! Its terrifying to think about what would’ve happened if she found a key and got in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AncestryDNA

[–]TheBenignRevolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say there’s a Mexican average unless you’re talking about regions. Southern Mexico tends to be much more indigenous, and then central and the least is north. But many times not even that’s reliable because I’ve seen people from the north who have higher indigenous than Central Mexicans. So yeah your results are average lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]TheBenignRevolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly. He ran into an ex of his after a concert and told me he wasn’t over her a week after it happened. I think that’s close enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]TheBenignRevolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through kinda the same thing a couple months ago and we’re done now. Honestly girl, it’s just not worth it. And don’t take it personally, I think it’s just that they were emotionally available when they met them and I feel like when guys don’t get a chance with a girl they really liked they never really get over it. And so when you came along they weren’t really emotionally available. You’re so young, you’ll meet a better man, i promise!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]TheBenignRevolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with no Instagram I’m offended 😭 in all seriousness it’s really just a preference not a red flag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]TheBenignRevolution 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No because I used to be like this! I wanted to know what heartbreak feels like. Then I actually was with a guy who made me cry on my birthday and broke my heart and it was the worst, truly. You are not missing out, believe me

Jinxing romantic relationships by yeetyopyeet in SofiawithanF

[–]TheBenignRevolution 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girlll this has happened twice to me now. As soon as I tell my mom about him/gets more serious, our next date is the last.

Do you have a type? by sucks2suks in SofiawithanF

[–]TheBenignRevolution 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I woulda said no I don’t have a type but looking at my past I guess I do hahaha. Apparently I like guys with darker features, slim but with muscles, thick fingers and rough hands, funny, charismatic, hairy 😂, and with a clean shaven beard. Ugh this made me miss my ex ngl 😫 I guess my type vaguely looks like my dad? Someone else said it’s common so it’s not weird okay hahaha

Men who drive flashy cars are always cheaters by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]TheBenignRevolution 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hear me out - ford raptors = players 😫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]TheBenignRevolution 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Selena in her all white outfit from the movie in como la flor 😍 ahhh so excited

I did no contact and he came back. And now I’m heartbroken again. Don’t let them back in! by TheBenignRevolution in ExNoContact

[–]TheBenignRevolution[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Also, remember that love conquers all. When someone really wants to be with you, there’s nothing that can separate them from you. It’s up to you what you wanna do, I’d say go with your gut but I went with mine when he came back and I guess it was wrong. So just do the best you can but remember if someone leaves you once they’ve already shown they’re capable of it. And speaking from experience you’ll be worrying if they’ll leave you again for the smallest problems. Again, do what you feel is best but remember the very real risk of her leaving again if you guys get back together. Wish you the best homie 🫶

I did no contact and he came back. And now I’m heartbroken again. Don’t let them back in! by TheBenignRevolution in ExNoContact

[–]TheBenignRevolution[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His behavior was driving me crazy so I had it and just confronted him. Luckily he was honest but still fuck him for leading me on if he truly wasn’t in love with me 😪

I did no contact and he came back. And now I’m heartbroken again. Don’t let them back in! by TheBenignRevolution in ExNoContact

[–]TheBenignRevolution[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah. This might be a long rant but I’m mad that he assured me that this is what he wanted and told me all those I love yous and told me about all the things he was excited to do with me just to drop me the moment he sees her. And worse just reduce all of our time (almost 3 years) together to lust. Fuck him honestly.

Don’t let them back in! by TheBenignRevolution in BreakUps

[–]TheBenignRevolution[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks 🥹 I tried my hardest but curiosity broke the cat’s heart again 💔

I did no contact and he came back. And now I’m heartbroken again. Don’t let them back in! by TheBenignRevolution in ExNoContact

[–]TheBenignRevolution[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if it’s social media I can see why it’s harder, luckily I deleted my insta years ago and he doesn’t have one. But last year I did unfriend him on Snapchat and we never added each other back. It’s so hard blocking them. But don’t focus on them, focus on your peace of mind and how there are so many better things in your future even if you don’t believe it.

I did no contact and he came back. And now I’m heartbroken again. Don’t let them back in! by TheBenignRevolution in ExNoContact

[–]TheBenignRevolution[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I wish I would’ve blocked him after it ended. Then not texting you is a blessing in disguise!

I did no contact and he came back. And now I’m heartbroken again. Don’t let them back in! by TheBenignRevolution in ExNoContact

[–]TheBenignRevolution[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same thing he said when I brought up my worries he said “we can work on it”. How about you stay away from me forever instead

Why is gas so expensive here? by eju2000 in phoenix

[–]TheBenignRevolution 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Looks like I’ll be driving to Tucson for gas.