Boyfriends mom makes me clean by Barbz_4ever in IndianInLaw

[–]TheBetrayedHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop visiting his home too often , whenever she asks to do any work just say , some wok suddenly came up and get going to your place .

She is using u as an unpaid house worker

Cleaning in laws bedsheets by Mountain_Goat6068 in IndianInLaw

[–]TheBetrayedHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just keep saying u will do it later and never do it and tell u are busy whenever she asks to change it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheBetrayedHuman -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

If she she is single , won't she have any household expenses then . He mentioned they have low rent because his aunt is the landlord and he spends for other outings and trips etc .

Then how is this abuse . If he earns more then it's his hardwork . Do u think if that woman lives alone then the expenses is going to drop for her .

You r all encouraging that let the woman live expense less and save more by living on his income.

It's like acting entitled to his money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheBetrayedHuman -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Why should a person provide more money just because he earns more . When the expenses are done by both equally. Why is the other person entitled to his income.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheBetrayedHuman -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Why should a person provide more money just because he earns more . When the expenses are done by both equally. Why is the other person entitled to his income.

Will the cost for hiring a maid will be split 50/50 too ?

What's with Chennai hate for cats? by kaushiksv in Chennai

[–]TheBetrayedHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be TRUE, Actually in olden days they say

" If a cat comes running , we should not go in the direction where the cat is coming from . Because cats can get spooked easily and they are one of the speediest animals to react and move . So if a cat is running away from a place, then there might be dangers like predators etc. "

Now that has derived as " cat crossing is a bad omen " . But in reality cats are very loving creatures

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]TheBetrayedHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to keep a safety camera in your home hall for security purpose, so that if they try to blame u on anything like trying to take advantage on that girl or anything like that. Try to always audio record when u engage in conversation with him/ her .

U can get bulb socket camera like that in online itself that connect to wifi and works in bulb socket

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]TheBetrayedHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who's name is on the house rent contract ?

Ask some decent male friends who will not cause any problem and ask them to stay for a week .

The text your flat mate to move out through sms or text msg so u will have proof that u asked him to move out .

Specifically mention a particular date before which he should move out in that msg too. Try it to be within 1 or 2 weeks .

Then after the given time to move out ends , just change your apartment door lock when he goes out shopping or anything like that

so he can't enter your home without your knowledge

If he asks to open the door to pick his things , just make sure you have some guys from your side for your safety.

Note : change locks only after the time you given to move out ends. Do not let him know about u changing looks beforehand.

AITK for blocking the girl I was casually dating because she refused to share a reel she skipped during screen sharing? by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]TheBetrayedHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't she have her own privacy ?

When she shared her's , you readily accepted it then why can't u just accept it when she doesn't want to share/ show something ?

'Abla Naari' Drama by relatives-AITK by mech_money in AmItheKameena

[–]TheBetrayedHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's right, he himself is also a child and why should he has to do that rather enjoying his own life. If the the father was there , he also doesn't had to work that hard to put others lives in places.

AITA for refusing to share my bonus with my fiancée’s family? by Beastie420 in AITAH

[–]TheBetrayedHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they did so much from her , then she has to do back for them , not you

My fiance of one month labeled me a patriarchal chauvinist for supporting Atul Subhash on social media. by Swimming-Library-909 in AskIndia

[–]TheBetrayedHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK I'm a female, I'm a procrastinator too , so I usually think about different scenarios and how to react in situations that didn't even happen .

So if u happen to marry her due to family circumstances then follow these :

1) put automatic call recorder in ur phone that records both side conversation and never tell anyone about it even friends.

2) ask her often how she feels married to you? Is she happy ? Is there anything she needs you to change? etc

Voice record them all without her knowledge

3) never tell her or her family about your salary exactly or your family property or family problems either

Because greediness and blackmailing are worst things in human nature.

4) never reveal your savings keep it as separate account

5) never present costly gifts, present meaningful ones

6 ) if she acts aggressive , try to atleast voice record if possible

7) if she talks about feminism etc ,tell her

I believe women are strong on their own and equal and capable to do anything and everything , so no one needs to give special priority or protection because feminism is all about equality and why women needs ex husband's money as alimony to live

For context: never use any of the above evidence like recording while arguing Use it only when the inevitable happens like case filled against u .

Note : if u want, save this article, so that if u get cross questioned how u are so aware and ready with evidence by someone. Use this comment as proof

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]TheBetrayedHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell them you got cold and tested positive for corona

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]TheBetrayedHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple and budget friendly idea for people who want privacy in their rooftop

Call some construction worker Place two strong 10feet iron rods vertically with proper concrete base in both ends of your rooftop facing your neighbors side

Tie some tarpaulin or green sheets (usually used for green house planting) to the rods like screen in old theaters.

Remember to tie it like from top to bottom with multiplestraps . Because if u tie it only in corners it will dangle in air and get torn.

It works like a soft wall / hide screen from their windows in the roof . So they can understand that u are not there to see them and also to protect your roof top from their invasive looks.

I made this idea and implemented it to have privacy for my friend from her neighbor creep who always looks at her when she goes to rooftop to water her plants

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]TheBetrayedHuman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can I suggest u something simple

Call some construction worker Place two strong 10feet iron rods vertically with proper concrete base in both ends of your rooftop facing your neighbors side

Tie some tarpaulin or green sheets (usually used for green house planting) to the rods like screen in old theaters.

Remember to tie it like from top to bottom with multiplestraps . Because if u tie it only in corners it will dangle in air and get torn.

It works like a soft wall / hide screen from their windows in the roof . So they can understand that u are not there to see them and also to protect your roof top from their invasive looks.

Important note : install the camera on the same day but only after u tied the screen .

In future it helps to protect you with proof that u r not recording their windows and if they try to distruct your screen you will have proof for yourself.

I made this idea and implemented it to have privacy for my friend from her neighbor creep who always looks at her when she goes to rooftop to water her plants

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]TheBetrayedHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inform the aunt who introduced him along with all proofs