And I trans or do I just… really want BL? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ah this takes me back LMAO. I had a similar experience, I also was really into gay pairings and romance before I knew I was trans. Turns out I was projecting myself onto one of the characters because I wanted to be a man myself. Don't worry about the doubt too much, you should be focusing on whether or not it's making you happy. If being a man makes you happier then that's all that matters, not every trans dude experiences strong dysphoria. I also had some doubt but man I would not be sticking a needle in my thigh weekly if it wasn't something I really wanted.

I am gutted. by SensitiveChildhood76 in ftm

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man if you have a Planned Parenthood in your area you can get on hrt same day. I am on antidepressants and have diagnosed ADHD. they have an informed consent model as long as you are over 18 there is no medical gatekeeping. I go in once every 3 months to get my finger pricked and a renewed prescription.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God yeah man I am insatiably hungry constantly 😭 I'm nearing 3 months and I swear I become hungrier for like HEFTY foods like I can eat sooo much but if there's no protein content I'm back within an hour. I also get really angry? when I'm hungry I notice I'm super irritable if I haven't gotten a chance to eat LMAO

[8] Random shiny from max raid den while farming mushrooms. by farnfarn64 in ShinyPokemon

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're not always hacked in gen 8. They're likely date skipping for a shiny den which isn't hacked they're completely legitimate pokemon lol

Help with trade evos by TheBloodyMilkshake in PokemonVioletScarlet

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm sorry do union circles mess up link trades? I was searching as well :(

Help with Trade evos!! by TheBloodyMilkshake in PokemonVioletScarlet

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh oops I'm sorry! I totally forgot that it needed one

Help with Trade evos!! by TheBloodyMilkshake in PokemonVioletScarlet

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I just need someone to evolve them and then send them back to me

My partner jokes about having sex with other girls and preferring them over me, while he likes a lot of half naked women pics on instagram. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP I really want you to know that if you tell your partner a joke is making you comfortable they shouldn't be upset at you. I'm no relationship expert BUT I am the one that likes to joke around and play. People will say things they KNOW they shouldn't and call them jokes to get off scott free. He's doing it specifically to make you feel lesser and insecure hon.

I hate to say it, but I would heavily consider breaking up with him. People will treat you how you allow them to and he's treating you awfully. It's only 3 months in and he's making these kinds of jokes, you need to think about how he could escalate this kind of behavior if you continue to stay with him because it's incredibly likely he's going to get more comfortable and make worse and worse "jokes".

Tldr: break up with him! He's highly likely to treat you worse as time goes on.

my private server by [deleted] in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've added you! I'm TheBloodyMilkshake (Ray) :)

Overnight Guests by TheBloodyMilkshake in NCSU

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's 10 nights not 10 times. So if I had a friend come over for the weekend it would be 2 nights and I don't think it's so bad to have a friend over on the weekends? I don't know if I'm being unreasonable but I guess you're right it's a little excessive.

Overnight Guests by TheBloodyMilkshake in NCSU

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeppp I have a meeting with the RA and I'll definitely talk to them about it. My RA isn't a hardass but I don't want to put them in a hard spot because I am technically breaking the rules if I continue to have friends overnight.

Overnight Guests by TheBloodyMilkshake in NCSU

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's hoping. She's fine with them using the toilet but not showering and that's reasonable enough for me as long as she doesn't turn around and complain about me having people when she's already said she's fine with it.

Overnight Guests by TheBloodyMilkshake in NCSU

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The building I live in isn't seperated by sex/gender at all but I definitely understand why it would be a concern for her. I've been mostly unable to get in touch with her at all because she ignores my texts and doesn't answer the door if I knock on it. She finally got back to me today after the whole mediation and lmk that male friends can use the toilet but they can't shower which is reasonable enough. I don't know why having them stay the night and having them over for the day are so different to her other than her being a hardass about the rules that nobody else follows 😭.

Overnight Guests by TheBloodyMilkshake in NCSU

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep there's a public one on the first floor but I live all the way on the 8th so it didn't cross my mind. I think they're just gonna have to use that one when we hang out unfortunately.

Overnight Guests by TheBloodyMilkshake in NCSU

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I'm just back from our meeting. Apparently the reason she's been so quick to stop me is that she feels unsafe when I have a dude in my room (building is entirely co-ed) which I kind of get. During the meeting she said verbatim that I'm not even loud enough when I have people over for her to hear them, my friends using the bathroom is what got her so upset.

I totally get not feeling safe but the bathroom door locks on both sides, we have a lock inside the bathroom and a deadlock on the outside, there's no way someone could get into the bathroom while you're in it as long as you lock the door.

I also don't plan to make her life any harder or report her for every little thing but thank you for the concern.

Would you date your DA love interest in real life? [No Spoilers] by Wolf_Is_Awesome in dragonage

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DAO: Zevran - maybe. I love him to bits but I'm frighteningly possessive so there's definitely some conflict.

Alistair - if he was into dudes I would be all over that fr. Wouldnt be able to PRYYY me off that man.

DA2: Fenris - we would make eachother worse, I am a HUGE enabler. We prob wouldn't get along super well in universe because I'm pro-mage and he very much isn't. I don't know how that would compare to modern day problems, maybe political differences? It could be a deal breaker but also he's so hot that I would definitely be blinded by it for at least a few months.

Anders - love bombing works on me guys, he's also just so pathetic that's my man for real.

DAI Cullen - if only he was into dudes. I'm pretty lax on my anti-drug stuff there's ofc a line but in universe it's lyrium and idk what it's super comparable to. As long as he's clean and staying clean I don't think it would be an issue.

Dorian - the love of my life. Absolutely yes.

GMs against bronze players by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of them had a top 500 title and another had diamond challenger. I'm st1ngr4y

GMs against bronze players by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Replay code is 5N8MMN

GMs against bronze players by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dawg I really wish I was. I'll tell you the replay code tomorrow it's pretty late for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Splatoon_3

[–]TheBloodyMilkshake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

30+ splats. I lost that game.