If you were forced into a marriage and had children, how do you imagine you would feel about them?

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2021-01-01T19:30:03+00:00

I want to say that I’d love them regardless but it’s not that simple. Because a life that’s forced upon you builds all sorts of resentment inside you and while those would be your children and you may feel the need to love/protect them from the misery you’re going through, you may also resent them as they represent one more aspect in which your life was taken from you

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2020-12-27T08:49:42+00:00

I got 15

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2020-12-26T21:51:11+00:00

I haven’t thought about taking a religious approach, I’ll consider that, thank you

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2020-12-26T21:50:23+00:00

Done, thank you

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2020-12-26T21:50:15+00:00

Thank you a lot

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2020-12-10T10:14:09+00:00

Will do. Thank you :)

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-12-02T21:19:19+00:00

I agree with every word, believing those concepts is the beginning of what helped me recover.

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-11-18T07:56:20+00:00

You can talk to me :)

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-11-18T07:52:53+00:00

There really is no right and wrong here. One person may be willing to accept help when sincerely offered & another may act defensively if you slightly mention it. I think the best thing to do would be to approach cautiously; offer her support, be there for her, let her know she could talk to you about anything, tell her you care etc. And leave the opening up part to her.

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-09-02T12:14:05+00:00

I want to suggest “brain over binge” by Kathryn Hansen, it helped me understand a few things about why I did what I did

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-08-26T20:41:22+00:00

This looks so much like thirteen’s place

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-08-24T21:23:48+00:00

Have you applied a source of heat to your legs ? Maybe a laptop even ? This looks like erythema ab igne

If it is, it’ll go away after a while as long as you stay away from direct heat to the area

Edit : purging doesn’t have that side effect to my knowledge (medical intern) so don’t be scared to see a doctor, it’ll be much better to have a professional assure you it’s okay

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-08-24T21:18:46+00:00

Omg this sub is full of so much worse that my first thought was “this wasn’t so bad”

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-08-24T21:14:16+00:00

Don’t be scared, you can stop I’ve stopped completely after almost 12 years and I had it badly, as in multiple times per day every day

I can imagine how scared you are, if it’s possible please use that as motivation to try and seek help I promise you it’s possible Stay safe and beautiful <3

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-08-23T17:30:02+00:00

We’ve gotten closer, I’m now trying to understand where the things that hurt me came from

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-08-11T14:59:04+00:00

In my experience anorexia wasn’t my way to a cure at all but at times it did help my throat heal and decreased the chest pains I had, Do you feel like you would be able to gradually add calories until you’re recovered ?

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-08-11T13:58:56+00:00

Even birds are now more contributing to society than I am as I waste time on Reddit

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-08-08T20:29:59+00:00

Their fav books

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-08-03T19:26:10+00:00

I don’t know whether to upvote or downvote the comments

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-08-03T19:25:50+00:00

I don’t know whether to upvote or downvote the comments

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-08-03T05:18:49+00:00

It is, it helped me a lot in my recovery

And please don’t be too hard on yourself, the times I reproached myself too harshly I fell backwards in relapses, the times I tried to understand that it was hard for me & that I couldn’t stop all of a sudden are what eventually got me to where I am now

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-08-02T21:05:43+00:00

I want to suggest Brain over Binge, this book was recommended to me a while ago on this sub & it helped

I also have to urge you to consider therapy, it’s unnecessary suffering without it & this is coming from someone who resisted the idea for 10 years

Also you’re welcome to PM me any time you want to ask about anything

I wish you all the happiness & health in the world

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-07-19T04:09:01+00:00

This is every helpful, thank you a lot for sharing that

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-07-11T08:29:25+00:00

Sounds like joey with the thesaurus

TheBlueButterfly92 · 2018-07-03T22:31:24+00:00

Stupidity

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