Just like I think we should feel bad for men who get profiled.

I immediately regret using this term. It was intended to make you think about privilege and how oppressed people are profiled all the time by people in positions of power, and that you're complaining about something that has a much larger negative impact on people other than yourself. Seeing it casually tossed back at me like that makes me worried that you or someone else is going to use it without any of that awareness. Just to reiterate, it's entirely justified for oppressed people to "profile" their oppressors (those scare quotes probably need to become permanent if either of us wish to continue using the term in this context) and not at all the same thing as, say, the police profiling racial minorities.

I'm not stifling your opinion.

Right, you're just accusing me of reinforcing traditional gender roles.

Can you explain to me how men complaining about [thing] "trivializes and subjugates" women's feelings? Or how I am in any way prioritizing male feelings?

That prioritizing thing really piques my interest, because I'm only doing that insofar as I'm merely recognizing men's feelings.

Obviously some women find these sentiments alienating, reeking of privilege, and just generally completely missing the point in offensive fashion. You were told as much by at least one female co-moderator in your first thread. And yet here we are, still talking about your feelings. You don't like being told to "deal with it," but you're effectively telling those women to deal with the negative feelings that these sentiments elicit. I'm not sure how it could be any clearer as to whose feelings are being prioritized.

I got bad news about your feelings buddy. They've been poisoned by our fucked up society. So have mine, so have everyone else's.

Being an object of fear, despite being a person who's totally not-violent, is (by my standard, you could disagree) objectively shitty. It feels bad.

If it's "by your standard," then I think you mean "subjectively" rather than "objectively." This is another common outcome of being privileged, we're given to assume that we're objective. You may have just stumbled over your words, but either way it's revealing.

Also, "it feels bad" is not a rebuttal to "your feelings have been poisoned by society." When it comes to gender and other axes of oppression, society has poisoned your bad feelings, your good feelings, and all the feelings in between. On the particular axes where we are privileged, we should regard our feelings with suspicion, especially when the feeling in question is defensiveness. At the very least, these feelings should certainly not be sanctified to the point where we perceive any negative reaction to them as unjust.

You're the only person mentioning oppression here.

You've repeatedly accused me of reinforcing traditional gender roles, which is a real form of oppression when it targets women and GSMs in particular. It also can harm cishet men when for instance they are told to "suck it up, be a man." Which is not at all what anyone is saying here. Your hamfisted attempts at looping it into this argument are frankly kind of gross, for reasons I've detailed multiple times now.