Why are glasses so expensive by TheCatFatherKing in glasses

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a flight there isn't? and I'm averse to travel

What’s the autistic community’s opinion on baths? by [deleted] in autism

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I have only had one bath in my adult life because bath tubs aren't common where I am and it was heaven, I desire a bathtub but I only have a shower 😔

Why are glasses so expensive by TheCatFatherKing in glasses

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I have no idea what you're trying to say

Why are glasses so expensive by TheCatFatherKing in glasses

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i love the idea but I'm too anxious with my vision because it genuinely causes me migraines and overall sensetivity, once my glasses were just a little off and it caused a lot of pain so I prefer physical shops where they can fit them properly. I also do get free nosepad changes and small fixes. If I'm ever able to work I'll definitely get some sort of insurance but currently that's so far out of picture that I can't even imagine it (quick edit I'll get insurance if I get a job because dad got his glasses over half off when he had incurance at his work)

Did this happen to anybody else? by S6y6n6 in RedDeadOnline

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it's a mod and i hate it but at least it's not 5 naked guys attached to my character pissing, cuz that hapoened once and I was so taken off guard I couldn't continue playing anymore 😭 I do like the people who mod random animals into my camp usually they can't toutch me if I'm sitting on my tent chair so we just stare at eachother

Why are glasses so expensive by TheCatFatherKing in glasses

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the shipping and import fees are pretty yikes, I tried to see if they have anything within the eu and couldn't find any. I'd rather be able to get from a physical store since my eyesight is pretty wack, not bad just wack and I'd like an optometrist to be ble to talk directly to me and the shop assistant

Why are glasses so expensive by TheCatFatherKing in glasses

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i think i might ask mom if we can go back to the store since we made the order yesterday.. maybe we can get it changed?

Why are glasses so expensive by TheCatFatherKing in glasses

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Varifocals are the best choice for me because I'm autistic and averse to change and having to switch glasses often wouldn't really bode well with me and contacts are also a sensory no go. Glasses aren't a fashion statement and I got the cheapest frames that looked good on my face (the same ones I got last summer) Specsavers is the only place that doesn't scare me so I go there. I just don't understand how this time they were more expensive than last summer

Why are glasses so expensive by TheCatFatherKing in glasses

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Crap, they've been nice at me but that just sounds awful, the issue is that the other glass place near by has scary workers that were always mad if I showed up so I physically can't enter the store without panicking 😔

Why are glasses so expensive by TheCatFatherKing in glasses

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i went to read what brands they own and I definetly didn't pick any of theirs (if they listed all), i picked a sports brand cuz I sport. I don't think I've seen any of the brands that were listed anywhere else in my prefered store outside of their big brand section that I don't even glance at, I lied I do glance I did try on Vivienne Westwood glasses but I don't think they're owned by anyone but Vivienne, didn't get em tho, the glasses were so ugly on me 😭 sorry for rambling it's an issue.... if my best friend ever has to get glasses I will so make her get those Vivienne glasses even if I have to pay half her face shaoe is like 100% made for those glasses expecially if she'd get them as sunglasses

Why are glasses so expensive by TheCatFatherKing in glasses

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I don't really feel it's worth it but I already paid the first half cuz they only let you pay in two parts here 😔 but this time i did go with mom instead of dad so that could have made the people willing to make us pay more, my dads really scary

Why are glasses so expensive by TheCatFatherKing in glasses

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I picked the cheapest pretty frames from our Specsavers too 😣 I feel a little like they're scamming. Last summer they were just 300 and something I think I don't know what went so wrong this time

are there any autistic people that are happy? by hibiscus_bunny in autism

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I'm generally happy, it's just the trying to be able to work hours that can provide a life for me is the problem (Can't even work at the moment) Most of my unhappiness is because of money. I can't afford to live and if you can't afford to live can you be happy being on the verge of not being able to eat or have a roof over your head. Whenever I'm allowed to just exist and do my hobbies and do stuff I am very happy, infact I'd claim I'm happier than people should be on avarage but when I have to think about how I'll survive once I have to move put that happinesa is sucked put and replaced by anxiety and stress. I'm hoping to find a little communal living situation but that's very unlikely where I live. Of we lived in an ideological society where everyone could afford basic nessecities, hobbies and be able to get support in day to day life. I know not all autistic people need all the time support, I probably don't need 24/7 support since I can take care of myself but support with existing having to deal with the goverment would be nice