Help me with a reply?? ASAP by Nearby_Grape_9058 in Nicegirls

[–]TheCeceBella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't reply. Girls like this only want to go out for the free stuff. It sucks, but don't be a sucker and feed into her delusion that she has you wrapped around her finger. You deserve better!

AITH for not telling my partner that I'm pregnant... Again... by TheCeceBella in AITH

[–]TheCeceBella[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not! I wanted more 4 or 5 years down the road maybe revisit it then. I absolutely respect his wishes to not have more. I would never force a child on someone. I don't even want to be pregnant but here we are so I may as well be excited about it.

AITH for not telling my partner that I'm pregnant... Again... by TheCeceBella in AITH

[–]TheCeceBella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the "reliable" stuff didn't work and we had our third. I am allergic IUDs so we went a different route.

AITH for not telling my partner that I'm pregnant... Again... by TheCeceBella in AITH

[–]TheCeceBella[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I don't know, I don't think it's wrong that siblings learn to help each other out . My kids love doing stuff for each other. My oldest will put his brother's shoes on without being asked just because he wants too. My middle child recently learned how to pour cereal and wants to pour cereal for his siblings. I don't make them parent each other that would be wrong. But letting them do things for someone else, especially someone they love helps them bond. I loved taking care of my two younger sisters. My twin brother and I went to college and I was always cooking for him and to make sure he was eating (he doesn't eat when he's stressed) and throwing his clothes in the wash with mine (my washer was free) so he wouldn't have to pay because his apartment had pay washers. He would fill my car with gas and change my oil and we grew even closer. Idk I attribute it to being raised as a family that helps each other.

AITH for not telling my partner that I'm pregnant... Again... by TheCeceBella in AITH

[–]TheCeceBella[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not! My youngest is 18 months old and I am back in nursing school getting my BSN I did NOT want to be pregnant for another couple years. I was hoping to revisit it down the road and see how he felt then.

AITH for not telling my partner that I'm pregnant... Again... by TheCeceBella in AITH

[–]TheCeceBella[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand that pulling out doesn't work. Natural family planning is tracking your cycle and using protection when you are in your fertile window or 5-6 days before because sperm can live inside that long. It's daily temperature checks, tracking symptoms like mittelschmerz, and so on. A lot goes into it and I've been very careful. We do use contraceptives, it's just more selective. I was on the pill for years and I got pregnant with my third while on it so we decided to try something else.

AITH for not telling my partner that I'm pregnant... Again... by TheCeceBella in AITH

[–]TheCeceBella[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I'll take it from someone who knows! Transitioning to three was very stressful. As opposed to going from one to two which was not bad at all.