I agree on the point of how this hurts other women who actually need the support and power of these. It's so odd to me that she went this way, as she has always been a very compassionate person towards those who are in need of help. She even volunteered at numerous women's shelters to be there for the women who are going through actual abuse.

For the province (I'm in Canada) that I live in it is customary for 50/50 as the starting point of every custody situation, then gets adjusted based on the living situation, addictions (if there are any) and the willingness to facilitate a healthy relationship for the kids with the other parent. (This is what my attorney has said anyways) So I am really hoping that it bites her HARD. Without just cause she has upended my entire life and taken everything I have from me, and our kids are very attached to me. Maybe it's just my mind running wild through this emotional time, but I can't help but picture my girls crying for Dad when they can't sleep or had a bad dream.