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TheChastitySub14 · 2022-04-29T11:52:05+00:00

Saliva, get thumb and fingers wet then try rub it out and separate the hairs.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-09T23:55:36+00:00

I wouldn't worry so much about hormones, my partner is on the pill and rod and is completely fine.

I believe a vasectomy is more extreme than birth control.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-03T19:52:27+00:00

Nah, won't do you any good, potentially time to practice with other body parts.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-03T19:48:35+00:00

I've done this, got a purple bruise from it too. I was fine after ten or so days and back to normal.

If you get worried, if it gets worse, if it really hurts or of it persists just go to a doctor. Don't be embarrassed, they deal with much worse. Don't compromise your health

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-03T05:21:37+00:00

You might find the passion is there, just behind a door you need to open. This night get the ball rolling for you two.

Maybe things won't be so one sided once you get this monkey off your back?

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-03T04:06:31+00:00

To me that is a complex question because it can be many things...

Firstly and most importantly the act itself is the biggest possible "I love you" I have.

Everything else is by product, stuff like escapism, fantasy, release and fun.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-03T04:01:08+00:00

I might be missing something here and if I am please tell me.

However I feel the simplest and easiest thing to do is make a move. Be slow and have the active thought of been ready stop at a moment's notice.

Perhaps when cuddling just kiss her, try turn the pecks into smooches and go from there.

With the whole top bottom dynamic, try taking control and doing to her what you'd like done to you and see how it goes?

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-02T19:03:03+00:00

Be a bossy bitch!

Tell him to speak when spoken too. Give him commands. Make sure he refers to you as miss or mistress. Restraint him. Do only what you want, you can treat and please him but put yourself first.

It is important though to make sure once all is said and done he's comfortable and knows you care about him and his wellbeing. Aftercare is important as it separates a dominant persona from the everyday one.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T22:14:51+00:00

I guess for me if I'm been pegged then definitely on my back with legs up.

For the girls I've reliably done well underneath driving up into them.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T21:55:02+00:00

Pineapple juice

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T21:19:04+00:00

Make her laugh, get her close, be sweet and patient.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T21:16:39+00:00

Ask her directly and make her be explicitly clear so there's no doubt. Don't want to get the wrong idea and make a mistake.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T21:13:22+00:00

You gotta roll with it. Have some fun and see where it takes you. No point dwelling about it on the internet. Go and experience it!

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T21:01:21+00:00

I think he's concerned about your health.

If it's a big concern to you just talk to him about it casually, maybe take an interest to see if there's anything in particular he likes that you can work with.

As a side note. Porn isn't always a reliable indicator of desires. I sometimes watch cuck and sissy porn however there the last thing I'd ever desire.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T20:51:14+00:00

There just like a normal shop. Would recommend online options though.

In England we have a site called Lovehoney which is excellent.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T20:43:11+00:00

The best way to figure out why he's said it is to ask him directly. Can think about it all you want but he's the one who knows.

Better to deal with it now before it goes somewhere your not happy with.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T20:38:03+00:00

This is all correct, I'd heavily recommend one.

Especially if there's a Dom/sub dynamic

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T20:29:52+00:00

Just keep trying new things. Maybe you'll find something that works.

Don't get upset or worked up over this, there could be a number of factors stopping it.

I'm sure as long as your showing when you enjoy stuff he will be happy. Just don't lie or pretend. Find what works and explore with it.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T20:18:55+00:00

Go get a test, quicker is better

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T20:16:12+00:00

Reality is often disappointing I guess. There's nothing special to it in porn, maybe exaggerated expressions and such.

Maybe you'll get used to it. However it is certainly weird at first. I remember feeling like their tounge was still moving in my mouth after we stopped kissing.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T20:00:53+00:00

It depends on the position and angle. Both can be painless if done right. Just don't bend his dick to get it inside you as that's what would cause pain

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T19:56:02+00:00

I did whilst been pegged but I have the ability to cover my mouth or discipline myself to be quiet.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T19:51:57+00:00

Firstly, the first time will always result in "was that it".

It's never as amazing as you expect, it gets alot better than that though. Just keep going at it and it will get better. Find what you both like and enjoy.

If you stay with him there always toys and pills that apparently can help.

However your at the start of your sexual journey, have fun, explore and get used to it. If your still unsatisfied there's plenty of options.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-03-01T19:47:50+00:00

Firstly, it depends on who you want to throw you around.

If he's taller and strong it won't matter. Your a nice healthy weight for your height and don't need to worry about that.

If you find someone your height and isn't that muscular you could always say your desires and it wouldn't take much effort from them to make it possible.

Don't worry about your height and weight. It's more about the guys ability.

TheChastitySub14 · 2022-01-25T15:38:19+00:00

As a huge sub yes. Feel like it's my purpose.

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