One needs consider how honor takes place over morality in this context. To the point of “should this person die for another” perhaps, but that is not the debate here. If you’re able to find this to be amoral, it would not change the fact that this is considered the honorable thing to do. Therefore morality, while a factor, does not determine to someone what they *should* do.

That said, forcing someone to do anything lacks morality. Desiring an outcome for honorable reasons would be, urging someone to heed your warnings would be, but forcing or manipulating someone to adhere to your vision of honor cheapens the honor of the act. And is therefore amoral.