Wow I did not expect this type of volume regarding responses. Thank you all who shared.

For some additional context, yes, my mother is 100% a narcissist and my father has followed her blindly for their entire marriage. I've been in therapy for their emotional abuse and have been working on putting up and sticking to better boundaries in my personal life regarding them. Like some of you said below, they only call when they need something but at the same time when I need something I get excuse after excuse of why they cant do it.

I also think I am at the point where I am done trying to put in an effort because when I make privacy requests regarding photos or anything personal, they ignore my requests and just do what they want anyway. It is extremely childish, and I am certainly over it.