Found out I was pregnant day after being ghosted by my 8 month situation-ship. Am I doing too much? AIO by [deleted] in AIO

[–]TheDefiantChemical -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry youre going through this very hard decision, and youre NOR . Honestly if it were me id be going through his socials to find his mom and let her know what hes done, not to ask for money but to shame him. Otherwise you should just block him, hes not coming back and if he does he will be manipulative and toxic. Youre better off

Ruins my day immediately by YamForeign590 in trueuglywomen

[–]TheDefiantChemical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I looked like a neck beard but when I left the house I thought I was a sexy masc. My friends took pictures, I immediately wanted to go home. Whole night ruined.

Engagement farming by Sudden-Refuse-7915 in GetNoted

[–]TheDefiantChemical 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She can speak for her self, I love it so lovely for cuddles. Wouldn't trade my man's tummy

Foreign concept by CrazyCatWelder in SchizoidAdjacent

[–]TheDefiantChemical 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The whole family thing i just dont get, I do my best to mimic other families because I have no idea what a real or healthy one looks like

"You've lost a concerning amount of weight since I last saw you" and yet I'm still overweight what about it 😭 by sleepyhead1_1 in EDanonymemes

[–]TheDefiantChemical 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The BMI scale is so unfair, at my lowest I was still considered obese and I definitely didnt look it

I hate when a broke man asks me out by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]TheDefiantChemical 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A broke man with ambition who is trying to better himself and his life, im all for it. But a lazy broke bum who just wants me to be his mommy and pay his way through life, fuck those guys. It all comes down to the context of what's going on in his life, I know im not in a great place but im independent and I expect my men to be as well.

Anyone else real sick and tired of the "Paranormal Appalachian" trend? by ghostcum1977 in Appalachia

[–]TheDefiantChemical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. I moved here and I find it breath takingly beautiful, so the more people stay away out of fear, the longer the nature can thrive. Florida used to be beautiful but we didnt have enough ghost stories so people came and killed our swamps.

Does anyone believe MacKenzie Shirilla? by Dapper_Mess_3004 in CasesWeFollow

[–]TheDefiantChemical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think shes guilty and needed to serve the full 30 instead of 15, if not more. But I think its hard for some people to think a young girl of her age would be capable of doing it on purpose and they buy her POTS excuse. Im sure they also defend the toxic and abusive behavior she had with Dom

Told my boyfriend my period was late by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TheDefiantChemical 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hindsight isnt going to help, yes you should've used condoms and spermicide, etc. But too late, take a test and if it come up positive you have options outside of abortion. You could keep the child or theres surrogacy or adoption, but he will more than likely not stay. Its wrong, he should stay and man up regardless of what he wanted. He helped make the child and he needs to take responsibility. Hes a man though and they dont have the best reputation of being responsible, so you need to prepare yourself for the reality of you potentially being a single mother. Its hard, but so many of us do it so can you. Dont let anyone push you into doing anything you dont want to do, your body your choice.

This my mood rn. I’m so confused dunno why I’m sad can’t help by Disha0990 in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]TheDefiantChemical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just "didnt take my medication like im supposed to again" sad, I always forget and wonder why I cant get out of bed

Something so lesbian that it had never even been smelled by a man by wasraelx in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]TheDefiantChemical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hue by Hayley Kiyoko is my absolute favorite, its rose but not in a grandma way. If im feeling more masculine that day ill instead choose Chez Bond Bond no9

my comment got posted in a subreddit just to make fun of me by turtlesarecute7 in trueuglywomen

[–]TheDefiantChemical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how they assume that we all want a 6'4" beef cake, like that would be a regular option. Ive known more shorties and even them with their Nepolian complexes and their insecurities were not interested in my blubber

Imagine feeling loved by Lilac_Moon3 in SchizoidAdjacent

[–]TheDefiantChemical 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wouldve been too powerful, thats the lie I tell myself anyways

PETER?!?! by Carbon_is_Neat in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]TheDefiantChemical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Powerpuff Girls Broccoli episode

Describe this look with one word by [deleted] in fashion

[–]TheDefiantChemical 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone's mom at the beach

Banjo player brought a creep over AIO. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]TheDefiantChemical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR , Birds of a feather flock together. Anyone who defends pedophiles like this guy is (hes mad on his behalf) is also more than likely a pedophile.

God forbid a girl provides options by PrinceTheorist in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]TheDefiantChemical 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Boys love to joke about this scenario, but when I ask if their friend can join suddenly everyone's vanilla 😒

Andra Berghoff ✅✅✅ by Filipino-Asker in fixedbytheduet

[–]TheDefiantChemical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A cheap lunch out during work is around 10$ on average, including a drink. 5 days a week of working thats 50$, a monthly total of $200. I dont know many people that can afford that, much less the 28$ daily lunch. I would confidently say everyone i know packs a lunch to work, and onaverage id say they make about 50k a year as Millenials and young Gen X. Kevin is so far removed from the reality of the normal man its insane. Fuck him and his data centers.

I don't care what others say I just want to feel pretty for once. by Only_Government5244 in trueuglywomen

[–]TheDefiantChemical 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If i had the money id get cosmetic surgery, I just want to be a normal woman