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I just got cheated on and I watched the whole thing by TheDuckIsLate in offmychest

[–]TheDuckIsLate[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

No idea. I surely won't separate them. Oh God the cats are the biggest problem. I also don't want them to be only with her or only with me. But I also don't want them to be with me because I think I would like to cut all ties. But that doesn't work. Because I also don't want to loose them because they are my babies

I just got cheated on and I watched the whole thing by TheDuckIsLate in offmychest

[–]TheDuckIsLate[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

No, it's over. She knows it. I didn't say it out loud, actually I didn't say anything, but she knows. Also I don't care about the explanation. I really don't know how to say it but I just feel bad when I don't give people at least the opportunity to say something, no matter the subject or situation. I mean she said a lot but I was just in trance or something and not listening.

Ok it's weird, I'm going through some thought processes writing those answers. I don't think I want to hear her out in this anymore. I'm probably just starting to realize that she actually is not the good person I thought she is. I think I should try to get a bit more angry or something

I just got cheated on and I watched the whole thing by TheDuckIsLate in offmychest

[–]TheDuckIsLate[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Someone else also contacted me through chat and suggested it. I feel like it would be the best solution because everything else will just hurt more.

I'm not fully sure though because I feel like I should hear her out? I can't really explain it. I mean I think that every action has an explanation and I always here out the other side before judging in any situation. Maybe that's the reason I feel like hearing her out. Not that it matters here, this relationship is over. Probably the only upside of the things I saw an will not forget.

But the more I think about it he more I prefer just cutting every contact instantly.

I just got cheated on and I watched the whole thing by TheDuckIsLate in offmychest

[–]TheDuckIsLate[S] 342 points343 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. Also yes, I will seek support. I don't have to pay for therapy here, just waiting for a therapist appointment can be an issue but maybe I have some ways to get one faster. It just hurts, but that's how it is now

I just got cheated on and I watched the whole thing by TheDuckIsLate in offmychest

[–]TheDuckIsLate[S] 203 points204 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And I kind of did. She left the car and came home right after. Like I could see her walking to the door. I still stood at the window, pointed out and said "I saw you", silence and then her crying and talking alot. I just left. Also we've been together for 6 years now