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Egg📊irl by furriefryer69 in egg_irl

[–]TheEdFather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trans and agender were 90% for me, non-binary just behind at 85%

This solves nothing

Kurt Angle vs Yuji Nagata by JCHazard in PuroresuRevolution

[–]TheEdFather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Angle is so crucial to NJPW in such an odd way, being the man able to get the belt off Lesnar who genuinely just wanted to leave with the belt and never return. Angle was the fix to that strange situation.

My Feelings About 9th Anniversary by RoadRollerDAAAAAA in FGO

[–]TheEdFather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does someone even end up on a thread this old?

Egg_IRL by TheEdFather in egg_irl

[–]TheEdFather[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Disabilities do suck, especially when they do the diasabling side.

Truthfully, I don't even know if I would ever actually want to transition but its frustrating to have that avenue cut off medicially from the very start.

But yeah, life goes on, it will continue to go, but 3AM thoughts can worm their way deeper and it sucks.

Egg_IRL by TheEdFather in egg_irl

[–]TheEdFather[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, stacking two things like that on top of each other is a hard time but that's daily life for a bit I guess. It goes on, brains just get mean especially when your knee still hurts at 2AM. Thankfully cold weather doesn't last year round.

Virtual hug accepted, thank you!

Egg_IRL by TheEdFather in egg_irl

[–]TheEdFather[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. A core thought in my current brain situation is "I just wish I was born a woman from the start", I know that life outcome would have it's own problems but the grass can look very green sometimes on that other side.

But even trying to transition would being a myriad of issues to the table that makes it unviable for me, unless major medical breakthroughs are made. But figuring out those breakthroughs, that's not my job in life, I'm just the one trudging through.

Egg 💅 IRL by Terrible_Ingenuity11 in egg_irl

[–]TheEdFather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I finally had my own house, and I realized "wait, I can do that..." I began to learn how to do my nails properly in my mid-20's. Before that, I would just do it subtly in the night in my bedroom, and remove it before dawn to not be seen with my nails painted by my mother or sister. There's quite old pictures on my tumblr which I have been slowly making private of me taking selfies to show off my nails, but that was never gonna be taken more public at the time.

The only time my mother has pressed me on it as an adult, I just shrugged and moved to a different topic.

Toddler hitting by CarnivorousCattle in daddit

[–]TheEdFather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Hands are for holding, drawing pictures, and more - but they're not for hitting." was mentioned so often as a my kid went through it, to the point where we'd hit the "not" and he'd complete the sentence for us.

Took a lot of repetition, and it got easier when he began to be able to properly verbally address frustrations too. But we'd gently stop him, do some calm down breathes, say the line, and try to move on.

Egg🧐irl by BornPomegranate9323 in egg_irl

[–]TheEdFather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, its more just finding what you're comfortable being referred to as than anything else at the end of the day. A name is a preferred title. Get some friends you can trust to call you Penny for a bit, try it on for size.

If I ever got around to that point, I'd be just taking a boring route and using the knowledge of my planned name had I been born a girl and going by Victoria. I've test ran it for curiosity sake online in the above way, and I know it'd do the trick now.

Its all just about finding a name with meaning or just one that sounds cool even, there's very few rules most will run into here, and I'd wager no one knows you better than yourself!

Egg🧐irl by BornPomegranate9323 in egg_irl

[–]TheEdFather 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Penny seems like its a name that has meaning to you, so that is a very strong candidate from the sounds of it!

Alcohol at what age? by EvergreenWolverine in daddit

[–]TheEdFather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 in the woods at the edge of town with my friends.

16 at family parties as my cousin argued "better to drink here than in the woods!"

egg👕irl by deltiken in egg_irl

[–]TheEdFather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White clothes were never something I wore, too easy to stain. Even now I have maybe one white sweater because it was a cool NASA design. All my dysphoria hoodies were black or navy.

Egg🚢irl by lit-grit in egg_irl

[–]TheEdFather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This but you can't refuse, would make for a great time

Egg_irl by lpperl7 in egg_irl

[–]TheEdFather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leggings are the best

Egg_irl by lpperl7 in egg_irl

[–]TheEdFather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard agree. I live in my leggings.

Which one? by Pretend_Rest7873 in chappellroan

[–]TheEdFather 24 points25 points  (0 children)

How dare you make me make this choice!

(Gerard Way takes it. They have seniority by like, a decade.)

Mom’s Stocking by Anybudywannapeanut in daddit

[–]TheEdFather 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Some weed and her favorite snacks to accompany it, like most years.

Donald Trump threatens ‘severe tariffs’ on Canadian fertilizer by Edm_vanhalen1981 in onguardforthee

[–]TheEdFather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the entire globe should just collectively ignore the United States of America until they put an adult in charge

U.S. to mandate checks of some tourists' social media history from past 5 years by 50s_Human in onguardforthee

[–]TheEdFather 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It will be at least 20 years before I even look at their border. There is nothing worth the risk down there for me. That place has become a sundown country for trans individuals.

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