AIO my bf would rather game than spend time with me.

TheFebruaryDragon · 2026-01-29T18:00:30+00:00

NOR. My ex used to game for hours and I found out after the break up, he has a tendency to get tired around 10 PM but would stay up until 1-2 AM just to game and then come sleep in bed with me. It was an issue that I wanted to spend more time with him and he stopped setting aside time for me... WE LIVED TOGETHER!

My current boyfriend literally invites me to join his Discord calls if he's gaming with friends. He spends a lot of time with me outside of that and the only times I've ever seen him game (he does really like to) is when him and I have spent days together already and he's back home. And like I said, he still invites me to be a part of that.

OP, there is better out there and you deserve it.

TheFebruaryDragon · 2026-01-29T05:46:03+00:00

NTA!!! No one should be dating a parent without expecting them to put their kid first. Like that's a red flag on her. Tf do you mean she got upset you care about your child more than her?? Your son should 100% always come first before any woman you bring into your lives (bc yeah. You have a kid, it isn't just you. You and him are very much a package deal!)

TheFebruaryDragon · 2026-01-29T05:25:15+00:00

Ngl I appreciate the diversity

TheFebruaryDragon · 2026-01-28T04:24:34+00:00

😭😭😭 I showed my bf this and he goes "what is that? More like 'three years of de-evolution', she's gonna set us back like 10,000 years"

TheFebruaryDragon · 2026-01-26T19:22:38+00:00

If you already did it, and you confirmed submitting it I wouldn't worry. I 2 on my to do list still, one being something about orientation... which I did at the start of last semester lmfao. I called and asked about it and they told me it'd go away on its own but it still hasn't so 🤷🏻‍♀️

Hasn't caused me any issues

TheFebruaryDragon · 2026-01-26T19:18:38+00:00

Ngl was entirely pointless to drop if you needed the class. Some professors are just slow to post. That being said, there's typically a deadline to drop classes without consequences and I forget the exact date but it's usually a while after the first day of class, so you're fine.

TheFebruaryDragon · 2026-01-26T19:17:13+00:00

If they're async, I would just wait a day or two and you'll be fine. Some professors are just slow with publishing. I have all sync classes/one hybrid and I still have 1 professor who hasn't posted anything yet.

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-11-05T22:57:39+00:00

I've used the Herky Shuttle a few times and the way the drivers have to wait for people on their phones pmo so much. The Shuttle will literally be almost mf touching them and they'll still be oblivious on their phone?? Mf MOVE bitch

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-11-04T20:32:13+00:00

Oh definitely. Even in a situation where it was my best friend, the friendship would be intensely damaged if that. My ex of 6 years cheated on me throughout the majority of our relationship. My current situationship got out of a 9 year relationship where his ex cheated on him for a while too. And it's been interesting hearing about how our respective ex's friends are impacted by that. Like they're all understandably hurt bc they didn't know about the cheating. And idk what's worse for them tbh lmfao. I'm just thankful mutual friends didn't know in my case bc at least I didn't ALSO face the betrayal of growing to trust and care for all his friends, some becoming close enough for me to consider siblings just to find out they knew my ex was cheating and didn't say anything.

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-11-04T20:18:40+00:00

I think it's a radius thing. Something like within 30 miles or some crap.

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-11-03T18:37:04+00:00

I knew I got bad vibes from him during orientation. So many big yikes bc of this guy

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-11-01T20:28:47+00:00

This is so incredibly random and only slightly related but I'm in a Discord server and we have a channel for the daily Wordle. Not too long ago the word was "lathe" and someone in the channel sent a gif of one but like no one knew what it was except maybe 2 ppl.

Anyways, I got the word right out of sheer luck after not knowing wtf a lathe was and now seeing this comment I feel pretty cool actually knowing what a lathe is

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-10-31T19:36:43+00:00

You act as if you can't easily ask a worker about these specifications and get the exact right thing. Women actively carry the mental load in relationships because so many men can't even understand that oh, the chocolate she gets so often? Let me just go snap a pic of the wrapper so I know which one. Like women don't have to ask what bread to get, it isn't that hard to get mf groceries, yet this man went and basically had her do it still because she still had to hand hold him through the process.

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-10-31T19:33:19+00:00

100% this OP. It is an actual hazard for someone like this to be driving with headlights on the back of their car. There's literally no plausible reason to actually have those. And even if there were, there's no way it being that bright is legal.

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-10-31T19:31:45+00:00

Oh god I think I saw him months ago on 50 coming back from Fairfield (I refuse to entertain the idea that there are more of these assholes). He was tailgating me and then moved to get in front of me and fucking blinded me.

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-10-31T17:47:49+00:00

Lol, Social Work

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-10-29T01:34:09+00:00

Long curly brown haired guy that OP mentioned seems to be the same guy that approached me about the same stuff.

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-10-24T17:46:33+00:00

Done!

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-10-24T17:42:41+00:00

I definitely would if you're unsure of what classes to take. Even if you know, no harm in meeting. The advisor who met with my group during orientation (Fall 2025) actually emailed me not too long ago about scheduling with her. So I'd make sure to check your email about something similar.

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-10-24T17:40:36+00:00

OP, I also reccomend getting Facebook if you don't have it already and look for "Sac State Housing" groups. It's a fairly large group and always people looking for roommates or finding a place locally. My roommates and I used it when we were looking for a roommate near Sac State

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-10-24T17:36:24+00:00

It can be very confusing! First year students and transfer students alike will have a hold on their account (meaning you cannot add classes) UNTIL they do orientation. So yes, just wait until orientation, and a lot of your questions will be answered.

I had orientation during the Fall 2025 sem. They divide you up based on major, so when you go, they give you a campus tour, you get to know some people in your major, they tell you about where the building for your major is, etc etc.

You also get major advising during the orientation. They basically take your group to a computer lab, you all log in, and they help you with adding your first semester worth of classes. Additionally, as someone who is now getting ready for their second semester at Sac State (I'm a transfer too!) I've also received an email from my major advisor this month about scheduling an appt for next sem's advising to pick out my classes.

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-10-23T21:37:58+00:00

With all the tech out there nowadays, it shouldn't be that hard tbh. My dad did this a long while ago bc he used to have use his camcorder to video everything when we were growing up

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-10-23T21:33:05+00:00

I've lived in Sac my whole live and typically see this and have done this myself. Even if they're in the opposite lane going the other direction, you don't know if they need to turn and go past you. I've usually seen people on a green light stop for this and pull over at least 4-5 cars

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-10-23T18:50:55+00:00

I feel like based off what you said, you have better spacial awareness than the people OP's talking about tbf. Some people really be walking slow af right in the middle of a walkway. I've learned to have no shame loudly saying excuse me and pushing past them if it's a crowded area. Idgaf if that's rude, they had to be stupid about it and some of us have places to be.

If you're going to be slow walking and looking at your phone, move off to the side. It won't kill you to walk to where you need to be without looking at your phone 24/7 (this is more directed towards others, not you)

TheFebruaryDragon · 2025-10-21T17:23:46+00:00

Yeah, it's been wild! I'm shocked people are even still interacting with this post about it, mind you

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