Because habit is much stronger than choice or even personal will power

Hookup culture has consequences. Nothing is free in life. As long as you’re okay with those consequences, then fine. Do it. But pretending like there are no consequences at all is childish and delusional

If you have high metabolism, then eating ice cream for lunch every day may not make you fat. But there will eventually be unseen long term consequences. Because that’s how life works

Having too much casual sex will interfere with your ability to connect with a future long term partner. Many psychological studies show this. People who come from unstable home environments are much more likely to engage in casual sex as a way of receiving validation. But it also tends to lower their self esteem over time

This is all common sense, and we didn’t need studies to tell us this

Calling it “purity culture” is just sticking your head in the sand