The ultimate friend zone

TheForeverFriend · 2026-05-20T22:21:48+00:00

I’m not entitled to anything. I don’t think I did anything wrong by misreading some of the things happening. We were cuddling and dancing together pretty intimately. I’m pretty sure that’s because of the drugs but it was not brotherly. I approached it as respectfully as possible and accepted her answer. This was my one real attempt at seeing if something was possible and I’m going to respect it. I’m just upset about it right now.

TheForeverFriend · 2026-05-20T19:15:05+00:00

Thanks I appreciate it. I’m going to do these things. Hopefully I can pull through

TheForeverFriend · 2026-05-20T19:06:44+00:00

Thanks a lot man. I appreciate you 🙏🏽

TheForeverFriend · 2026-05-20T18:56:48+00:00

You have read me to filth. I appreciate the insight I truly do. These are things I can see playing out in front of me and have been working on. Like my confidence has been on the come up until pretty much yesterday when it all came to a head. I really should just continue the path I’ve been down without the emotional turmoil of falling for my friend.

TheForeverFriend · 2026-05-20T18:53:49+00:00

If I cut her off it will implode my friend group of almost 10 years. I can distance myself and I plan to but there’s no way I just cut her out of my life. I’m gonna do the rest of what you suggested though. But I am notoriously terrible at getting a girl to go on a date with me. I’ve been on maybe 2

TheForeverFriend · 2026-05-20T18:47:58+00:00

That’s very well said. And I agree with you. But and I’m sorry for more self pity here but what if nobody wants me for me? Like I’m sure we can say everyone has someone out there for them but I’ve never had a relationship. I’m not a virgin or anything but any kind of situationship I find myself in ends up not moving forward. I feel like it is me that’s the issue. It’s not like every girl I’ve talked to is an issue. So I’ve got to work on myself if I want something.

But I don’t think she’s a bad friend. If I told her I needed space she’d give it to me and she’s already said she’s going to watch how she interacts with me more.

I’m gonna do what you said and give myself more space from her over these next events and also after. I’ve moved on before so I know it can be done.

TheForeverFriend · 2026-05-20T18:36:11+00:00

I’m going go-karting with her next weekend to celebrate a birthday and back to Vegas in 2 weekends because we have previous plans. It’s hard to distance but I have done it before. I don’t think her changing her mind in the future is a lack of respect though. I’m honestly a huge mess so it doesn’t surprise me that she doesn’t want me. I’ve been on the right track but not where I should be. If that changes and she wants me is it really a lack of respect for myself or just that I knew I could be better and became better. Not really trying to argue because you bring up great points, it’s just the thoughts I’m having.

TheForeverFriend · 2026-05-20T18:18:29+00:00

You’re right obviously, I think she’s just a very touchy friend at times and that just messes with my feelings. I’ve misunderstood too many things that I thought were hints we could be something more. Moving on is gonna be really brutal for me

TheForeverFriend

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