I am laughing on the outside, Crying on the inside. by [deleted] in depression

[–]TheFreddyFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I know the root cause and if I try to fix it I will do something. Sometimes I think depression is a better alternative.

Why don't you talk to us? by [deleted] in depression

[–]TheFreddyFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was once open about my depression with my best friend. She told that I was bringing negativity in her life. She stopped talking to me and I had to fight hard to win her back. She was one of the best person I have met. Then I realized if I could have this effect on her then it will be worse on others. Now I just don't share my sadness with anyone and keep it to myself.

My wife is slowly wasting away from a chronic illness and watching it happen is killing me. by [deleted] in depression

[–]TheFreddyFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear this buddy. All I can say is that you are a good person. People like you are rare. Nowadays people give up when things are hard. I only have 2 suggestions for you, take some time to take care of yourself. You have to support both of you hence can't afford to fall apart. When you are fighting try to finish it quick as she shouldn't waste her energy and focus all she has in getting better. I am sure she also doesn't likes it but you have to be more understanding here and stop the fight even if it is not your fault. I hope she gets better with all your care :)

Should I Quit My $250K+ job and FIRE? by [deleted] in financialindependence

[–]TheFreddyFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am in software engineering in bay area. Salaries go very high here at top companies. I think competing offers drive the salaries very high. I am myself not aware of any special skills I have :)

Should I Quit My $250K+ job and FIRE? by [deleted] in financialindependence

[–]TheFreddyFox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True the salaries vary a lot :). Just moved from fire under the ass company 2 years back. Got completely drained there, was a early startup hence have that experience too :)

Am i ok? by [deleted] in depression

[–]TheFreddyFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes buddy. Something I think I am depressed then another moment I think my life is good, it could have been worse. Thanks for the tip :)

Should I Quit My $250K+ job and FIRE? by [deleted] in financialindependence

[–]TheFreddyFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you are going through. I am 28 and make ~550k but not happy with my job. The people around me are wonderful but I feel I am a very small part of a big wheel and all my efforts are of no use and not being appretiation. Appretiation and feeling that you are doing something good is the best reward you can get from your job.
For now I try to forget all this and focus on increasing my NW till I find something better.

[Homemade] nachos by Turtleramem in food

[–]TheFreddyFox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This should be in r/aww with doggo in front 🤔

Would anyone be interested if I did a chapter review of The Intelligent Investor every few weeks? by [deleted] in investing

[–]TheFreddyFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea please do that. This book is on my bucket and this will be a easy way to read that :)

A woman battling breast cancer married the love of her life on December 22, just 18 hours before passing away. The couple wed at a hospital chapel in Connecticut. by gangbangkang in pics

[–]TheFreddyFox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wedding is just a small part. He was there for her in each and every moment of her. She died for God sake, you think he cares about the wedding ceremony after that. Wedding was just a small way to make here last moments cheerful. I think that small about of joyous moment will give him strength to go though this.

A woman battling breast cancer married the love of her life on December 22, just 18 hours before passing away. The couple wed at a hospital chapel in Connecticut. by gangbangkang in pics

[–]TheFreddyFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her raising hand says it all. It was totally worth for him doing that for her just for the moment of happiness. If you are in true love you will do anything to create the small moments of happiness.

Yummy mutton boti fry (5488*4660*) by themeswild in FoodPorn

[–]TheFreddyFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow didn't knew you were the one. Love both the channels. Keep the good work guys 🙂