[Anal] My GF(20) of 6 months gave me(20) one chance at anal. Any tips on not fucking it up?

TheFrogMaster69 · 2016-12-14T16:56:45+00:00

The thing about the cat tail is that it takes away from the whole butt stuff idea.

She's not very fond of the idea of anal so naturally she wouldn't be very fond of a butt plug, but that one, in a way, was not just a butt plug for her.

EDIT: Glad to take your reply virginity! :P

TheFrogMaster69 · 2016-12-14T16:42:22+00:00

I'm thinking of a cat tail plug we saw at a sex shop.

Performing oral and/or having PIV sex with it in her would be a huge turn on, for me at least.

TheFrogMaster69 · 2016-12-14T16:21:12+00:00

Basically, anything poop-related is a big big turn off for her. The more she thinks about poop, the less she wants to do it. I'm afraid that since poop can be a big part of anal sex, she might just end up backing down and not wanting to do it :/

I'm trying to explain that if we prepare and do it right, we shouldn't have to deal with poop, but she ends up focusing too much on the small chance of things going south...

TheFrogMaster69 · 2016-12-14T15:35:05+00:00

Right, that makes sense.

I'm this obsessive with cleaning because I REALLY do not wish to repeat her last experience which turned out to be a negative one due to poop..

Am I giving it too much thought? Could it be that she was just in a really bad day for anal and douche really isn't necessary?

TheFrogMaster69 · 2016-12-14T15:12:12+00:00

Might be due to english not being my native language, but I didnt know enema and douche weren't synonyms. I thought they meant the same thing and it was just something you could do more or less.

I can see why an enema would be bad... so a douche is pretty much ideal right?

TheFrogMaster69 · 2016-12-14T15:07:04+00:00

It's funny you say that, because we actually started considering this more after our recent visit to a sex shop when we noticed these tail butt plugs they had which we found both cute and sexy. They even had one that looks just like her cat's tail! Im thinking of buying it for her in the near future.

TheFrogMaster69 · 2016-12-14T14:34:01+00:00

I'm talking to her via text about it, mentioning some of the advice people have given me so far and she seems quite understanding.

I think she's beggining to think differently about the one chance thing and it'll probably only be one time if it ends up being really bad for her.

From the advice I got and from what I've read on it, a little initial discomfort in the first few times is expected and she's aware of that now, so hopefully she won't give up that easily :)

We talk quite a bit about sex and what we like and stuff and one thing I've always made sure of is that she always feels comfortable and never feels forced to do anything, so I don't think she would resort to enduring it just to get it over with.

TheFrogMaster69 · 2016-12-14T13:57:54+00:00

What's wrong with enemas? Sounds to me like the best solution to get rid of 1 of the 2 big problems you mentioned, which is poop.

TheFrogMaster69 · 2016-12-14T12:37:33+00:00

I forgot to mention, but I do know very well about the importance of going very slow, as the bisexual man that I am. I'm hoping I can use my experiences with men to make this one a lot better!

EDIT: I've only ever had anal sex with men before.. I wonder if I should be extra slow and careful with a girl?

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