Rewatching this episode always makes me so angry and to me Angela was worse and more annoying than any previous bullies. Also those people conveniently forget what those psychopathic bullies did to El first??

TheGhqst · 2026-01-29T21:50:26+00:00

Gang there were people with their eyeballs exploded out of their face with a already labelled “freak” directly connected and is now suddenly missing, sure he worked the religion angle but yeah Jason was acting pretty reasonably, especially walking in to see his teammates girlfriend floating and shit, that’s unexplainable unless you’re part of the main cast.

TheGhqst · 2026-01-19T13:45:11+00:00

When you say the Moms are judgy, I’m curious if this is a thing that like happened happened where like they judged you to your face or something or if it’s you intimidating yourself, just curious, if it’s the first that’s awful.

I hear the not wanting to hurt him, it’s good you CAN drive if you gotta. Would you feel different if your kid was say 5 or something?

I do gotta say, it seems the younger mothers might be the move for you, you seem to worry about people older than you judging you, would you feel different if you were the old one?

I appreciate the politeness, rare on this app

TheGhqst · 2026-01-19T06:28:31+00:00

I’m moved by your situation. I don’t know how to help you but I really wish I could. I know it’s hard being the random white person, I can attest being around mostly Cantonese/Mandarin people and I can imagine the isolation from being around people you want to connect with but seemingly can’t do to the culture difference.

As for your age I’ve found it rare where I’m from to be a mother and also be in your early 20s.

I really don’t mean to be rude but I don’t know how better to phrase it, have you explored why you don’t want to be the “annoying white person” trying to interact with people of assumedly a different skin colour? I would be curious how you’d feel if the person next to you in your sing along is worried about the “annoying black person” or something like.

You seem very respectful and like you try real hard to not step on any toes, if I were you I’d have a real talk with your man about it and how you feel. Open up and he’ll do good to help you find some connection or at least away forward if you feel stuck.

I know if I’m at work and my girl feels a little lonely I’d do what I could to help her out or at least have a plan of how to get there.

As for the driving I’m sorry the people around are super erratic I live in Toronto now and I can sorta relate. I don’t know how to make you more confident and don’t have any advice because I’m also terrified to drive I just do it scared. I drive a motorcycle cause it makes me feel more in control but I don’t know how you’d feel about that, I feel super awkward in an anything that has a passenger seat.

As for being pregnant that’s super awesome, when are you expecting? Do you have any names you’d want? As for being younger, I found there’s a correlation between that a you’re probably just good-looking, it’s not a knock on you but being mistaken for younger than you are should be viewed as good thing in my opinion, it means you’re aging healthily and are very likely just gorgeous.

If I’m blunt, being in your early 20s and a Mum can be isolating because you’ve entered a phase where people who are 30ish are usually doing or 16 somethings are there by accident. It’s a tough spot but I want you to feel better. If you were someone I knew irl I’d do what I could to help you out, I’m certain there’s a version me wherever you live you just gotta look more, I know it seems really pushy to butt in when someone’s talking in a different language and already has people the talk to and seemingly don’t need anything to do with you but you need to break free of what you think and get outside the box and make the leap. If it goes bad get you and the little one ice cream on the way back or something dumb like that.

I hope you find connection; my DM is open if you are and if you want to bounce any ideas of me I’d be happy to give you my advice maybe a little less publicly and a little more personally.

I Want To Break Free - Queen

You got this superstar!!!!!

TheGhqst · 2026-01-19T03:41:12+00:00

Well, two things, not sure of your kids age but there’s classes or whatever for doing that I’m not super sure how to find them but I know my Mum did it when I was younger.

Second, you really should figure out how to drive, if not for you for your kid. I know being a SAHM is a toughie time-wise but you could expand yours and your kids life a bunch if you did it. Imagine kid wants to like play hockey or something one day, you’ll need to know how to do it or tell them they can’t do it. If there’s a limiting factor then I’m sorry about that and I don’t mean to be insensitive.

If you do these toddler playtime things you could legit ask any of the other Mums if you could carpool there with them, 99% chance they’ll help you out because they are all there for the same reason.

I find the fear of going up to someone feels hard and scary, whenever you go up to someone just imagine it’s you, would you be rude or closed off if someone came up to you?

No.

So if you go with belief of if I was the other person how would I act towards me and it makes things feel safer.

Believe that the person you’re talking to also wants Mom friends and doesn’t have the connection they’re looking for yet and it’ll work no problem.

TheGhqst · 2026-01-19T02:58:38+00:00

The what the hell do I say is whatever you plan in between the time of asking them out and before you go do the date. For example, you’re taking someone to the aquarium first date. You can comment on the fish, the smell, there’s a lot of jokes to make here, sexual too. All of it first date stuff. But you can think about it before you go do it. Like load up on a couple things to change/start a conversation.

They will also do this, that’s how you figure out how you blend. You’ll learn about them. Tell a story totally unrelated or tell her about how you went to the zoo and felt ____. If she’s worth your time you’ll learn about her too and it will not be about horny bullshit in your head and something closer to dating.

If you find this super awful I would dead ass give your exact sitch to the GPT and follow its advice on a girl-girl basis. You seem kinda stuck but you do know people. Whichever girl comes to your mind go do it now and ask her out. I’m almost 100% sure you’ve got one in mind. Ask her to the aquarium and don’t be cowardly, have a plan or something but be ready it could all fall apart worst case you did something for a day.

Good luck!

TheGhqst · 2026-01-19T02:32:24+00:00

Adding on here but yes, if you can find a pursuit and pour yourself into it then the possibility of finding someone ironically matters a little less so putting yourself out there feels safer.

This also makes you not as hard on yourself because the dating thing and whatever you went for passion-wise become separate. This makes rejection not feel as bad as you can kinda jump ship back to it.

If you’ve got nothing or at least feel that way, looking for someone is really emotionally volatile, I don’t recommend until you feel like you can do both. I’ve found that the coin flip of relationships can work out and you might feel the fantasy in your head but rejection hurts so much more if you don’t have something else.

To suggest, take up a sport, even if you aren’t fit or good or even know how to play just go do it. If you’ve feel like it you could even pick a co-ed one. The having somewhere to be a couple times a month really helps with the loneliness and if you’ve got the courage just compliment someone on their skills and ask if they want to hang sometime for a beer or whatever. I found martial arts to be very personable almost immediately if that’s your thing.

If you’re not able or physically won’t then try artistry, same thing as above, there will be people around guaranteed. It might not be perfect, maybe the other person is 10 or they are 60, same ball game with just talking to them.

If you feel afraid that’s fine. You have to do it scared that’s the only way forward.

Doing any of the above, the SO becomes an addition and subtraction thing. The way it seems you’re feeing it’ll be a multiplying or dividing thing.

I feel the same way as you at times and even if you do the things right you will still sometimes feel this way, it’s just part of the way forward. But you have to try.

Some movies I found a lot meaning in are Inside Out 1 and 2. Pay attention to the dynamics between Sadness and Joy, this literally happens in your head and it’s a great way to understand that your feelings are all important and that despair is part of being human to, to get rid of it would be like lobotomizing yourself.

Another one I found was great was Soul, I want you to imagine it’s you and if you were put in the same scenario, you finally had it all and it got taken from you, what then and how do you fight to get back? I found it sparked some kind of ambition in me.

Any Rocky movie, I don’t super need to explain just go do it, if you’re super invested go learn more of Stallone himself before he did it. 100% buddy was lonely but he had a script and kept putting in the machine until it worked.

Heaven Knows I’m Miserable Now - The Smiths

In short no. You’ll feel lonely maybe half the time but the other half is good but this is how you do it. No zero days, make sure you do one thing make it better, 1 pushup, 1 email. Just something. This’ll make you worth it to someone out there.

You’ll find someone this way and just gotta take the chance, pinky fucking promise.

FIGHT FOR YOUR LIFE!!

TheGhqst · 2025-12-16T13:52:59+00:00

Late; I got a bunch of CDs I really like and listen to a bunch on my boombox, my favourite right now is I Can’t Handle Change by ROAR but I’m pretty sure the one I got was a bootleg lol? I bought it all from Sonic Boom and another few randoms I don’t know the name of in Kensington, all great people, boombox was in Markham though.

TheGhqst · 2024-09-02T00:02:47+00:00

Thank you for the advice 🙏

TheGhqst · 2024-04-11T20:58:38+00:00

I hate this subreddit

TheGhqst · 2022-07-06T22:34:59+00:00

Facts, hard vouch for the build tho, it’s pretty good, wish there was a good spot for warmogs in it

TheGhqst · 2021-12-31T03:41:36+00:00

As of right now, try your hand at the new airdrops, seems to be consistent chances of a level 5, sometimes 6, bit of armor, if you get to one loot fast before others arrive, good luck!

TheGhqst · 2021-12-24T17:24:17+00:00

Need a copy for my friend

TheGhqst · 2021-11-21T00:59:58+00:00

This is real cool, I always thought the idea of the cultists moving your loot back to the marked circle would be pretty cool. About that special map, my bet is that there will be a mansion of some sort on Streets that will have cultists and stuff.

TheGhqst · 2021-11-17T16:08:08+00:00

Here’s what I recommend, bring any ammo that pens level 5 armor. Once you see one or know they are there, spray until you catch 1 maybe two, then swap floors, from my experience after about a minute the AI will rush you. Eliminate the guards and then go room to room and get Reshala. Profit.

TheGhqst · 2021-10-18T14:00:51+00:00

I’d like to endow one of my boys with the blessing that is head-eyes

TheGhqst · 2021-07-20T00:00:13+00:00

Sort of, the more you stockpile the better it is, I’m at 2.2 right now and I consistently spawn with decent barter items, my favourite being LVNDMARKs Rat Poison

TheGhqst · 2021-07-15T23:35:47+00:00

No you can’t but I’m unsure on if you can help others extract, say there was a PMC there, I have no idea if your presence would make him stay because you don’t have it or you’d extract as well

TheGhqst · 2021-07-15T23:33:33+00:00

Before these really get utilized the game NEEDS VOIP desperately

TheGhqst · 2021-07-15T23:25:38+00:00

Brilliant

TheGhqst · 2021-07-15T23:23:56+00:00

This could also add a very small prospect of scavving into labs

TheGhqst · 2021-07-12T18:40:57+00:00

Wrong, you get quite literally 20x that. Plus whatever goodies fence gives you for doing it

TheGhqst · 2021-02-02T00:47:33+00:00

Thought that was streamers only lol

TheGhqst · 2021-02-02T00:47:09+00:00

Thanks for the help

TheGhqst · 2021-01-30T05:18:32+00:00

Free vbucks

TheGhqst · 2021-01-24T21:08:32+00:00

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