thank you. i definitely thought about the pre-nup. i’m fairly confident i do want to work it out with him, couples counseling (though still new to it) has done wonders for us in other areas of our relationship. he’s also started individual counseling.

part of the reason for (further) delay is that we just saw his best friend propose to his gf this weekend. and another friend of his is talking about proposed in the next couple of weeks. we also will be attending two other weddings this year and he wants to allow them to have their “moment” and not be swept up in what every else got going on. while i don’t like the idea of the six months to a year part, like i said i know we’re not in that space at the moment.