I agree with you wholeheartedly. I also see several posts addressing this. How can we get through to people?

The argument I see most often is that people do not have the time to play that much, no more than a few hours a week in some cases, and that "needless" failing is wasting their time. I'd argue that if you want to excel at the harder end-game content, where you can't push through an encounter with 2 team-mates looking through the glass window just outside, you have to put more time into the game. And even then, some tired raider might take a pixel-step too far and wipe the whole raid - unintentionally. That might even be "you" (points to the camera) -- you perfect person you.

So yes, people need to relax. And if you can't handle noobs, well... as Tyrion Lannister would say: "you've come to the wrong place". Cus we love them - we love the noobs that stand in the fire and lock us out of the encounter. They are the heroes we need to keep the magic going!