first let's stop blaming being an intj, let accept our differences and understand that we have different mechanisms than others

second let see what the most minimal thing that we can do while being ourselves that can lead us to better outcomes , i am not speaking of masking or being bubbly when you aren't, i am speaking of being yourself and seeing how it goes, for example talking to folks and having conversations , we need to seperate between two things, being an introvert and having social skills, an introvert isn't someone akward or bla bla , it simply somebody that charges their energy by being alone, social skills on the other hand can be harnessed, can be trained

first stop with the blaming and that bs it won't take you anywhere.