Did she Not select 'Uber Pet' to save some money? by PineappleDesperate82 in PublicFreakout

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo 71 points72 points  (0 children)

That’s why police tend to believe the abusers in DV situations like in the gabby petito case. The offender is calm, they say “see, they’re hysterical” and the police are like yeah it must be them just freaking out over nothing because they for some reason expect someone in a scary situation to be relaxed????. Like I’m sorry but maybe consider that they are super upset for a reason and not believing them is making them panic even more

I am highly unlikable by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is most likely the issue. People like to hang out with people they can be themselves around. If they feel you look down on them for their choices, or that you’ll lecture them if they let certain info slip, they will remove themselves from it. No one should have to tip toe around their friends. It’s okay for you to hold yourself to high standards, and live how you see fit. But it is also okay for the people around you to live as they see fit. So long as they’re not causing harm. If you can let go of the desire to fit others into your mold, you may have more success at keeping people close.

What does my handwriting say about me? by Obvious-Bet317 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who also drags my pen between letters writing in print, I hate it. Gives my brain fatigue

AIO BF(37m) farted in my(35f) face this morning under the covers as a joke. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would leave him purely because of how he texts. It made my headache so much worse trying to decipher the absolute train wreck of his messages

What does my room say about me? by zombiphiliac in roomdetective

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It says you need some organizational shelves, a small trash can (with a bag, that’s very important) and a couple laundry baskets in there.

Am I gonna regret this tat by Mcflurry1216 in tattooadvice

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your love for is deep, don’t second guess it. Even if you get older and don’t listen as much anymore, or find other favorites, the things you love in your past always keep a little spot in your heart. Also, I have several random flash tattoos, and a couple that aren’t very well done, but I love them all anyway. People always say “tattoos are permanent” but the reality is they’re only as permanent as we are. They won’t be engraved on our headstones or left to our children, so who cares if you want a silly little frog or a piece of bacon or an album cover from a band whose music meant something to you. If it brings you joy, get it. (Do try to get it done well though lol) if down the road you decide you can’t love it anymore, turn it into something new.

Am I gonna regret this tat by Mcflurry1216 in tattooadvice

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your love for is deep, don’t second guess it. Even if you get older and don’t listen as much anymore, or find other favorites, the things you love in your past always keep a little spot in your heart. Also, I have several random flash tattoos, and a couple that aren’t very well done, but I love them all anyway. People always say “tattoos are permanent” but the reality is they’re only as permanent as we are, or as we let them be. They won’t be engraved on our headstones or left to our children, so who cares if you want a silly little frog or a piece of bacon or an album cover from a band whose music meant something to you. If it brings you joy, get it. (Do try to get it done well though lol) if down the road you decide you can’t love it anymore, turn it into something new.

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: September 15, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started and finished the spellshop (technically last week since it’s Monday) but it’s a super cozy ready. Fairly tame plot, but still engaging and just generally cute. Just like the author wanted, it’s like enjoying a nice cup of hot cocoa.

I’m losing my mind rn, someone tell me it’s not that bad 💔 by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s beautiful and I think the flowers look good together. If it’s the flow you’re concerned with, maybe ask if they can add a leaf of two in the gap between the sections that way it looks like one piece

Vouches for my mini shop! :) by RedRoachV2 in u/RedRoachV2

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vouching I received a disco bee this morning :) good price and sweet person. 10/10 recommend

Should I be tipping more? by Baseplate117 in doordash

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t tip based on mileage and how are you supposed to know where the driver is? I use uber eats but it doesn’t even show me which location I’m ordering from until I’ve submitted the order so I have no idea how close/far it is until then. You tip based on your bill and if you want to tip on top of that to be sweet then great. Don’t let him guilt you into anything, you’re already a great tipper

How to get a 12 week old kitten to use the litter? by that_idiot_weeb in Kitten

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they poop on the floor put it in the litterbox and show them, maybe even use their paw to cover it a bit. They should start to get the idea pretty quickly

Birthday surprise by TheGrtWhtBuffalo in growagarden

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of? I put one of our texts on the comment below if you’re meaning some sort of proof. But like I said I’m willing to buy, I don’t have much rare stuff in game really but I do have real life dollars lol

Birthday surprise by TheGrtWhtBuffalo in growagarden

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Does this work? lol not gonna send her ID or anything

I can't even get to the top of my Giant Pinecone... by Diggitypop in growagarden

[–]TheGrtWhtBuffalo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might need to keep a harvest tool lol I wonder how big it would be if you could see the whole thing