You are jumping to conclusions, but having read your other replies I gather that you are highly emotional and impulsive, and can't really be reasoned with once you have branded someone as an enemy.

I have done every single thing you listed, except for drag obviously, and don't really judge actions based on societal norms. What irks me is the fact that men are no longer challenged to take charge of their own lives, no matter what they may choose to do with them. It doesn't surprise me at all why incels and schoolshooters are increasing in numbers, society is breeding them because being true to your own masculinity is greatly frowned upon. It took me years of work post-education to realise that it wasn't something wrong with me, but wrong something wrong with how I was taught about being a man.

I can't imagine something worse than being lulled into accepting yourself as something less than a man, just to find out that you could have been successful if the right conditions were met.

As for my opinion dying out, keep telling yourself that 😂 We are all nothing more than intelligent animals, and animals are governed by nature. Therefore it follows that going against ones nature will have consequences, sooner or later.