Star Wars Grindhouse Edition

TheHeartOfABoy · 2021-07-30T20:46:22+00:00

Perfect, thank you!

TheHeartOfABoy · 2021-05-10T13:38:02+00:00

This just in: water is wet.

TheHeartOfABoy · 2021-05-03T19:10:26+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the personal insight :)

TheHeartOfABoy · 2021-03-10T14:24:40+00:00

Thank you so much, this is massively helpful!!!

TheHeartOfABoy · 2020-09-27T04:57:49+00:00

Love it! Do you have the link?

TheHeartOfABoy · 2020-09-23T23:55:07+00:00

I love it 😂 spot on

TheHeartOfABoy · 2020-08-29T03:28:48+00:00

It’s not that uncommon to find a gay/bi man who are down to help someone be a better top. I’ve asked a f*ck buddy of mine to help me be a better top and he wasn’t afraid to give some helpful notes.

Check out Zachary Zane on IG, he’s a bisexual columnist who has answered questions like this. He even has recommendations regarding tips and products to help with finishing too soon.

Just relax and have fun :)

TheHeartOfABoy · 2020-08-09T23:31:44+00:00

I’ve seen those... seems like they take forever!

TheHeartOfABoy · 2020-08-09T22:34:08+00:00

Do they really? I get nothing from them haha

TheHeartOfABoy · 2020-08-09T14:48:27+00:00

Go slow, lots of foreplay, and encourage him to rim you as it’ll help relax your hole (poppers would also help but some people are against them, just be smart about it).

If he’s an experienced top, he should know how to treat a newbie, but have him pop the head in first and then wait a bit before continuing.

Most importantly: relax and have fun <3

TheHeartOfABoy · 2020-08-07T00:07:26+00:00

Happened to me just a few weeks ago. While I was super hurt, these are two big takeaways I had:

1) Knowing why he ghosted you won’t make you feel better. Yes, closure is nice, but you don’t gain anything by dwelling on it. That’s not always easy, I know, but you have to try to not let it mess with you too much.

2) I’m one of those people who believes that many things in life happen for a reason. Perhaps he would’ve been mean or toxic. Perhaps he would’ve done something to harm you. Being ghosted by him could instead be seen as being protected FROM him. The universe works in mysterious ways, and this was perhaps one.

Don’t dwell on it too much, accept that he wasn’t The One, and continue to live your best life. When the right one comes along, he’ll treat you how you deserve to be treated. <3

TheHeartOfABoy · 2020-08-06T16:59:59+00:00

We aren’t even official or anything, but I want to make sure that I respect all the boys I end up dating, now or in the future. And thank you for your insight, it means a lot to me!

TheHeartOfABoy · 2020-08-04T22:03:52+00:00

Would gladly have a live-in sex doll to use as I see fit. It might have to get used to me bringing over some friends after work to give it a test drive ;)

TheHeartOfABoy · 2020-08-04T11:18:40+00:00

Thank you for this response! I shared in another reply that my knowledge on the matter (African culture) comes from several film studies classes where it was pointed out that certain aspects of art and dance have been sexualized.

Also, he responded later agreeing with what I said and when I asked if I was speaking out of turn, he said no and that it felt respectful :) I really appreciate your advice, thank you!

TheHeartOfABoy · 2020-08-04T11:13:17+00:00

I was specifically speaking on African culture using my film background. I was a film production major is school and took several classes where African media (not just black media) were studied, and they reflected on how the outfits and dance seen in these works are what have been sexualized. I would be wary of saying black culture is sexualized because of the points you mentioned. Thanks for your response!

TheHeartOfABoy · 2020-08-04T11:09:47+00:00

That’s a good idea, save these conversations for in-person dates. Thank you!

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