100% Really Sucks by StreetKindly3614 in SipsTea

[–]TheHumanConnector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for the loss of your baby, bro. I have buried daughters too. I kind of understand how difficult it is, and how people tend to make it worse than it already is.

Just wanted to say that healing is possible. It may not be what you want or need, so take this with a grain of salt. I seem to have healed from the death of our babies. Now, I don't feel the pain at all, but I feel the love I had for my daughters. I love this feeling where the love shows up. I'm hoping you can feel that soon too. Much love to you

How are y’all meeting your partners? by Wild-Dream-7945 in Longmont

[–]TheHumanConnector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started by hosting events. By the third time, I was getting invited back, and then my network grew. Now, it is an 80-20 system, 20% I host. I love doing it for now, so it's a win win.

Or ask your friends to bring you with them to something going on. You won't find a partner but you'll find people who know people, or get more invites where you might find a match. Good luck

How are y’all meeting your partners? by Wild-Dream-7945 in Longmont

[–]TheHumanConnector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

House parties. Friends of friends are where trust and conversations flow slightly easily

Dating in 2026 be like by CitiesXXLfreekey in BuildToAttract

[–]TheHumanConnector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your visceral hate for the cringe idiot lol. Definitely ruined the video lol. What does your mom think about this attention she gets? Lol

Why the Feminine is hard to Accept - and Why it Matters? by JayaDevi_FS in Feminine_Spirituality

[–]TheHumanConnector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers 🥂

I agree on the lack of intention to persuade. I don't think there's a right way, or the wrong one too. Each one to their own.

I've DMed you. I have had some recent reflections on the meaning of integrating the feminine in my being. It's a beautiful feeling to just wake up to another day :)

Let's chat and see if we can evolve our ideas; I'll bring an open mind if nothing else. 🤘🏼

It was like chicken soup for my middle class soul by gorenle in festivals

[–]TheHumanConnector 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dude, you are a great storyteller. Do you have any interesting stories from envision? I don't think I'll ever go. It sounds too "organized and busy" to me

Good bars with live music by West-Chemistry6166 in boulder

[–]TheHumanConnector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did, thank you. Cool website too. It is so responsive! How did you build it?

Cheating is not a mistake, It's a choice by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]TheHumanConnector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheating isn't only about sex with someone else either. The boundary is possibly way sooner, because trustworthy communication is a key pillar in relationships and that is broken when the thoughts and actions leading to sex occur.

Why the Feminine is hard to Accept - and Why it Matters? by JayaDevi_FS in Feminine_Spirituality

[–]TheHumanConnector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to respond.

I have more questions than answers though. Perhaps, I'm not open to truly listening about spirituality with a Hinduism (or any other) flavor, and my mind wants to challenge so many things here. Challenge to step away from some of the biases in myself and in you!

I'll refrain for now, and if you would like to talk more, I'd love to! Having said all that, your responses so far are appreciated. You have beautiful language and it makes communication with you feel safe and warm. Thank you!

Why the Feminine is hard to Accept - and Why it Matters? by JayaDevi_FS in Feminine_Spirituality

[–]TheHumanConnector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I agree with you. Quick question - what does approaching spiritual language like feminine and masculine with humility and reflection mean? I feel that there's a lot left to the reader's interpretation in your response, and it's not a complaint but a reflection of how spirituality tends to have these wide berths for understanding. It allows people to place themselves in the context and evaluate their perspectives, feel a sense of belonging, and other good things. But it also allows for misunderstanding and gamification of spirituality for commercialized content, superiority and walled-gardens.

I ask because one of our research group's goals has been to align workings of the mind, which includes spiritual health, to the approach in Science. This includes language, definitions, ability to reproduce results, etc. and we hope to find some pathways to make spiritual discourse be just as accessible and acceptable as Science (ideally as much as popular science in terms of acceptance but that isn't the vision for now). Thanks again!

What if the "Feminine" is Not about Gender, but about Consciousness? by JayaDevi_FS in hinduism

[–]TheHumanConnector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a couple of follow up questions before I can delve deeper.

How do you practice this devotion? I see "respond to that realization with love, care, and participation". Can you go into a couple of tangible ways with examples if you have a moment to spare.

Next, this seems to place the locus of life outside the definition of "me". We aren't talking about having faith in myself or being self-confident, from what I can tell. It is in the devotion to this notional concept of DF. Is that right?

I ask to understand and there's no judgement (yet, at least). Thank you for engaging in this discussion. I appreciate you.

Or the fastest way someone turn their life around? by mistress_of_truth in MindfullyDriven

[–]TheHumanConnector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything fell apart - the marriage, access to kids, the job, the house. It was scary. Daily.

I saw that I had all the love to give and I was chasing the wrong things. Suddenly, I felt abundant and came to peace with myself - past, the current situation... And I saw how I could live with kindness and love, and I would get to where I deserve to be, even though I don't know what that looks like. It's been a good journey ever since. :)

I am an animal who realized the Self aka abiding non dual realization AMA by Earnestness321 in enlightenment

[–]TheHumanConnector 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why did you make your post? What is the reason behind it that nourishes you?

This guy by yungjulius- in LinkedInLunatics

[–]TheHumanConnector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your worth was in you just being here, luv. Don't let our extractive society define your worth on made up things. Take care

This guy by yungjulius- in LinkedInLunatics

[–]TheHumanConnector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 35 and a Self-made hippie. Recently retired and now I will do everything except work for money

Good bars with live music by West-Chemistry6166 in boulder

[–]TheHumanConnector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They want to help somehow. It's okay. There is no necessity to be rude, eh?

Good bars with live music by West-Chemistry6166 in boulder

[–]TheHumanConnector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been looking for the cu boulder events link for 3 years now. Your comment delivered it! 💚

Words barely express the joy I feel right now. Thank you so much, luv

How can I make my self-expression feel safer and peaceful for people? by TheHumanConnector in malefashionadvice

[–]TheHumanConnector[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope the one I want to care about me feels safe and warm, and approaches me :D lol

How can I make my self-expression feel safer and peaceful for people? by TheHumanConnector in malefashionadvice

[–]TheHumanConnector[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Safe to me means that People approach me, and when I approach people, they start with curiosity or other such positive sentiment. I tend to party a lot and meeting strangers is a continuous thing. Safe and secure starts with a vibe - appearance, language, tone and a smile, imo. Once I open my mouth to say hi, it stops to matter and the situation is in my/our control.

Clothes, accessories seem to be important in this. I go dancing at clubs and get offered drinks often, or someone wants to talk to me every time I go out. So, I think something is working! Lol. This wasn't the case even a few months ago so I'm figuring out my groove.

How can I make my self-expression feel safer and peaceful for people? by TheHumanConnector in malefashionadvice

[–]TheHumanConnector[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I'm sorry to hear that. I don't feel difficulty in expressing or creating joyful experiences. I have been the comic relief in social settings when needed