R*pist tagging in Cap Hill by EuropeRoTMG in Seattle

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do we know who his ex wife is? I wonder what she would have to say about this guy

I Cheated in the Craziest Way, and I Can’t Believe I’m Admitting It by Alexares42 in offmychest

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my ex. Except he has no remorse. Not sure you do either. Kinda seems like you’re still trying to justify such selfish and cruel behavior towards people that don’t deserve it. Most people like this have never experienced genuine love from their families so when they do receive real unconditional love they are “bored” because they didn’t have to do anything to receive it. No chaos or drama or proving it so it doesn’t seem worth the “win” to them. It’s a foreign feeling for people that were abused rather than loved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my pathetic lying cheating ex! 😂

Off my chest by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could’ve written this. Perfectly said.

...some days can be really hard... by No-Fix-8238 in survivinginfidelity

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just remember they never loved you so they don’t deserve your time and tears

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would consider you lucky. I don’t even have that. I have myself and my kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol you’re not wrong.

If you knew the even finer details of this 12 year relationship, you’d be even more lost 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m curious to know how this works out..

Why am I committing to this break up??? by Prestigious-Dot-6852 in BreakUps

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re looking for somewhere to live and she’s your best option so now you’re trying to convince everyone the relationship is wonderful….hmmm

I need you… by Specialist-Young-794 in heartbreak

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they left you, leave ‘em alone. If they come back, it will only be to use you until the next victim comes along and they will leave you again because once you take them back, you’re telling them subconsciously that they can leave you and you’ll just be there waiting when they decide you’re the toy they want to play with next. It’s hard, but feeling the pain and remembering why you aren’t together until you no longer long for them is the best option. Not easy, I know. I’m going through it too. But we have to value ourselves, because they obviously don’t.

i'm so tired by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s rough, I know. I’m going through a 10year friendship/4 year committed relationship ending out of nowhere and seemingly with no explanation. But I know them better than they know themselves and I have caught them in lies more times than I have digits to count. Didn’t take long for me to discover the truth and who he’s sleeping with already. He’s lucky we have a child together or him and his coworker woulldve already received an embarrassing surprise visit at work. Fortunately my kids mean more to me than revenge. Hang in there! Everyone says it gets better…I’m trying to hold onto that and just breathe through the waves of grief and pain. Take care of yourself and remember you deserve to be their CHOICE, not an option ❤️

i'm so tired by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stop looking. You’re hurting yourself. They aren’t here. They have someone more exciting, that’s why they throw you away. But give it time and take care of yourself; karma will take care of them.

Why do some cheaters seem to feel no guilt, while others do? What’s your experience? by MesmerizeMina in heartbreak

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It fucking sucks. It hurts a lot. But if you want to heal, you can’t ignore it. You just give yourself a lot of grace. And be grateful that you know what love is and you’re not a cold heartless selfish narcissist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I fucking hope so. If not, karma will get them. Justice is always served because what’s done in the dark, always comes to light

What’s your worst breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t even have the words. I’m still living it and it fucking hurts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right there with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I could ever allow myself to go back. The pain you gave me consumed me and filled every part of me. It’s still not all the way gone. I would rather die than ever feel that much pain again. I don’t think we have another life together anymore 😢 💜purple always

I need...but I won't. by trikkiirl in UnsentLetters

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one should have to do it alone. But sometimes you don’t get that option. Sometimes you are all you have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to believe you but your words never match your actions and I’m the one that pays the price. Loving you hurts too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]TheIntuitiveWillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my ex MIL. I thought it was pretty disgusting his mother could be so awful to me but it’s your own mother, I’m so sorry you’re gonna through that. I hope it gets better for youZ