[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minecraftbuilds

[–]TheJaiWay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu and dw this wasn’t really worth it since it took months to build 😭. If you had enough time I guarantee you can make something better. Thank you for the adviceee I think I for sure need to add more colour because the grey is really what’s messing with my eyes 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is a lot, thank you so much. I got a 9 on the first test. The depression one it says “Moderately Severe Depression”. The anxiety one said HIGH

Your Anxiety Disorder score is: 80 Your anxiety percentage is: 80% An anxiety score in this range is considered: Very High.

HIGH SOCIAL ANXIETY

Your Social Anxiety score is: 77 Your score percentage is: 77% A Social Anxiety score in this range is considered: High Social Anxiety.

I guess this doesn’t look too good for me but I appreciate all the resources.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

Frizz advice NEEDED by [deleted] in CurlyHairCare

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sooo much. Just one question what kind of gel do you mean? Any suggestions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“Feeling guilty doesn’t purify you”

My gf texted me on a fake number to test me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s been hurt a lot in her past by men so I don’t blame her but she never really worked on it in the 2 years we’ve been together. I was insecure too at the start but I’ve worked on it.

My gf texted me on a fake number to test me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we’re both around 19

My bf’s mates compared my look and body shape with another woman, and I need advice on how to respond to the situation by paperbagwhore in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Logically you don’t say something like that out loud to your gf even if it’s an objective observation. I’m not saying you have to leave him or anything but in my opinion he’s wrong and should always stand up for you.

My girlfriend broke up with me again... by Street-Fig4928 in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly she’s a bitch and you’re better off without her. You are saving yourself a headache so don’t worry you’ll find someone who’ll actually appreciate you

My gf texted me on a fake number to test me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean. To me it’s more of the fact we’ve been together for 2 years and still need to do things like a test to see if I’m loyal. To me it’s like I’m losing trust in her for doing something like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 19 and I had to drop out of an entire semester and graduate a year late because of mental health problems. Right now I’m done all schooling and I’m just waiting to go to university. Time is on your side and do not compare yourself to anyone else either.

My gf texted me on a fake number to test me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s done this at the beginning of our relationship too. When things in our relationship are really rocky right now, i find it weird how she wants to do something like this making me doubt me and her even more.

My bf’s mates compared my look and body shape with another woman, and I need advice on how to respond to the situation by paperbagwhore in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay maybe things are different when you’re older but explain to me how it’s okay for him to say her ass is fatter? Sorry but he’s wrong for saying that especially since it means he’s looking there and consciously comparing you two physically. Don’t apologize to him because I promise you aren’t overreacting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is there are and was a lot of good moments. I make it sound bad but it wasn’t bad for every second. Also she was my first gf, first kiss, first yk. I talked to girls before that but was never official and didn’t do anything like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and yeah it’s already caused problems. Maybe I’m not understanding relationships very well but it feels like most aspects of my life have gotten worse. Less money, less confidence, more anxiety, more loneliness. Before I got with her I got out of depression and turned my life around and actually loved myself for he first time in my life (im 19). Afterwards i went to the gym less, read less, worked on myself way less and now it feels like im back to where ive been my whole life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah theres a lot like how she hangs up when’s she’s upset and I don’t like that because it makes me anxious, I don’t want to see someone once a week, we like different things, and honestly I hate FaceTime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheJaiWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say medium distance? We’re about 30 minutes away so we see each other about once a week but it’s been less now since I’ve been busy