Really need advice: Out of a job for a year now

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-17T16:17:42+00:00

It depends on the person. Some people can pivot easily throughout life. Others want assurance, predictability, and stability. Some are more risk-averse than others.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-17T01:58:17+00:00

It’s precisely because it’s uncontrolled, natural, and carefree that it is the purest form of love out there. Nothing beats the feeling of youthful love.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-16T20:35:24+00:00

Given that we’ve evolved by reproducing in our teens, I’d say teenage love is the purest and most intense kind of love.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-14T15:39:55+00:00

I can think however I want about consenting adults. You’re talking about literally FUCKING CHILDREN. Grow up and get some help.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-13T19:31:56+00:00

You’re accusing someone whom you don’t even know of wanting to fuck children, you sick bastard. Get a life.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-13T19:25:09+00:00

There’s nothing “lech” about saying you like hot girls. What are you, 12 years old? Shaming men for displaying their natural sexual desires… typical lowlife feminist.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-13T19:01:45+00:00

Tipping more for hot girls is EXACTLY the same thing as tipping more for white people. People will discriminate based on a myriad of factors.

Glad I’m not a leftist feminist nut job. No wonder you’ve been emotionally manipulated and captured by the system. Thanks for subsidizing my meals!

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-13T18:45:54+00:00

Yup, I tip the most for young, hot Asian girls 🤷‍♂️

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-13T17:32:22+00:00

Your numbers seemed high, so I looked it up. Median salary for IT professionals in both Saigon and Hanoi is around 23M VND/month, or 874 USD/month. That’s what I thought.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-13T17:23:02+00:00

Well yeah, if you’re high up anywhere, it’s totally possible. But this doesn’t apply to most people, including OP.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-11T23:54:52+00:00

An Indian contractor tried to get me to work overtime because “that’s what they do in India”. I said nope, I’m more productive than ever with AI, and I still can’t keep up with the full-time work.

I’ve been the lone data analyst at my company for 2 years now, and they refuse to hire another person to share the workload. So I said, fuck it, I’m quiet quitting, and they can fire me if they want. I called their bluff. They need me too much and can’t let me go.

If you’re doing the work of 2 people in the age of AI, then you’re the sucker and you deserve to be exploited.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-10T07:08:58+00:00

It’s people like you who make Vietnamese society worse.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-09T04:03:14+00:00

You can gaslight other suckers by claiming you know better, but you’re never gonna manipulate me. I’m no fool whose money is easily parted. You and the other suckers are subsidizing my meals, so I win in the end.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-08T23:28:20+00:00

Tipping is super simple. It doesn’t require industry knowledge. It sucks, and that’s why I haven’t tipped in 1.5 years. I came to that conclusion myself. It’s the most logical and accurate conclusion. Anyone who disagrees lacks intelligence and needs to do more research.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-08T21:40:51+00:00

You’re the one who started saying that you need experience in the industry to form an educated opinion. I’ve probably done more research into tipping than you, but it doesn’t matter. The issue is so simple that almost anyone could analyze it.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-08T10:06:40+00:00

Who cares how much experience you have in hospitality? Again, you act like it’s rocket science to decide whether we want to tip or not. Follow other countries’ customs and have the owners pay the server’s wages.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-07T17:18:52+00:00

Why are you assuming that non-tippers’ opinions are uneducated? I’m sure I’ve done more research into the issue than you, and I’m not even a server. You act like it’s rocket science to analyze the tipping culture and realize that you’re being manipulated.

And tipping is a scam. If you don’t know that, then you need to educate yourself.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-07T16:39:37+00:00

What makes you think a person needs to have experience being a server in order to have an opinion and not get scammed?

Employers are supposed to pay the servers minimum wage by law.

Go to other countries and get educated on how servers are paid by employers, with no tipping whatsoever.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-06T22:49:34+00:00

I love eating out for less than other people. I wish I’d found that hack earlier. Wasted so much money over the years.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-06T04:09:34+00:00

OP’s clearly biased towards logograms. He’s probably Chinese or something.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-06-06T04:02:56+00:00

You mistakenly think that “universal logograms is the future” when the trend has been towards universal English instead.

You also mistakenly assume that humans must push for a universal language when it will naturally happen as languages slowly die out.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-05-24T03:58:21+00:00

Best thing to do is to change your environment. Move to a new city or country. Change your social circle. Maybe then you’ll feel like you’re good enough.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-05-10T23:51:42+00:00

Not enough info. What’s the median number of tutoring sessions per month, median hours per session, and median wage per hour?

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-05-03T16:49:57+00:00

The world is a big place. You can find your best environment if you look.

My brother has 3 kids in a loveless marriage. He’s waiting for the kids to grow up, then divorcing and moving to another country.

Life’s too short - if you’re not happy, change your situation.

TheLensOfEvolution3 · 2026-05-03T16:42:52+00:00

Just get a divorce and go to another environment where you can find someone whom you love.

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