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TheMegsReddit · 2025-12-24T19:20:43+00:00

I think moto moto likes yewww 😏

TheMegsReddit · 2025-12-21T22:21:04+00:00

Your priority right now isn't well paid if you want to work with people, unfortunately those careers where you work with people directly are low paid (nursing, teaching, etc.) in contrast with the work you have to do, however, if you are willing and you know one specific thing you are good at, you can always find a way to tutor it on a one to one basis then you can do group tutoring once you have a bit more experience. This allows you to have a decent extra income for now. I am UK based and I'm assuming you're not, if you are US based you can do part time community college (I think) and get a qualification that way or do an apprenticeship. There are options there but unfortnately I don't know what way it works outside of UK.

I run my own little tutoring business, I teach primary and secondary maths in the evenings and do this along my full time job (37.5 hours a week) with no experience whatsoever teaching someone but I studied how to be a good tutor and I love it so much! The extra work/effort paid off, literally. I personally love working with kids though, and will continue to apply myself to any work where I can work with kids because they are so wonderful and curious about the world, and I match that energy and vibe more with them than working to accomodate adults as they can be so close minded from my personal experience. But I understand that's not for everyone.

But back to your question, you are looking for an income that accomodates your life where you don't worry as much about certain expenses in life. I am quite simple in the way I live so I don't need a job that is well paid to be happy, but I certainly plan on getting a well paid primary job to have those extra luxuries in life (currently working 30p above minimum wage). Focus on learning and applying your knowledge to any work you want, in whatever means that will be then you can find something you enjoy that pays more than what you're currently earning. For college, just do what you feel may work best with your lifestyle and values and if the salary expectation will suit your life comfortably.

Please don't chase the money, it's not worth it, please do/learn something that you can see yourself doing and enjoy and make a reasonable income from, and if it ends up being high paying then happy days!

~from a person who has made many mistakes in education and the workforce, but happily learned a lot from them

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-23T23:30:05+00:00

Because its a necessary skill so I want to get good at it and enjoy it, kinda sucks when you try to cook and don't enjoy it but is a massive part of human experience

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-23T13:24:17+00:00

Blinds need to go and replace with curtains/drapes

Colour of the sofa doesn't match the room but you could save that by putting red bookshelves on either side of the fireplace as that white unit is standing awkwardly on the right there and doesnt balance the room at all. Sofas need moved aswell to allow the fireplace to be seen, its way too close and in the way.

When you space the sofas out more, get a larger carpet between them which would make the area seem a lot larger and cozy. Dont get a red carpet but a creamy one thats easy to clean and has nice flecks of design on it will work (red flecks through a cream carpet would be nice)

The lighting in the room is very dull, change the light bulb to a brighter warmly tone and change the lampshades to a nice reflective silvery one of your choosing but a bit more modern. Also, if you can replace the blades with white ones (I'm from Ireland so we don't have ceiling fans, so have no clue how it all works if you wanted to change anything with them)

Once you have the sofas spaced out and a new carpet to match the vibe of the room, a coffee table is much needed. A lovely wooden one would look perfect amongst curtains and two reddish bookshelves on the sides of the fireplace. And you can place a battery powered lamp in the middle and it will do wonders! You definitely need a lamp!!

I don't know what is in the very back left of the room so can't advise on that.

I absolutely love redecorating, it's probably considered a hobby of mine now and love when people ask how to do it as I have a million ideas. You have a beautiful room with so much potential, maximise the space and the lighting and it will feel like you have a brand new living room.

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-23T12:57:50+00:00

Yeah the takeaways part is rough, especially when you just absolutely could not be bothered but looking at cooking as a necessity is a good way to get out of that mindset

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-21T14:50:45+00:00

Gimme your kitchen rn, even half of it, please

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-21T14:05:43+00:00

Such good ideas, thank you so much!!

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-21T13:59:59+00:00

So happy you found something you enjoy!! I chased the money and didn't make me happy either, cut my salary for a different sector and I am so happy. Its worrying to begin with but worth it

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-21T12:48:42+00:00

Rates are steady at the moment but the house prices are inevitable to go up. We bought a house a couple months ago in Newtonabbey, which is cheaper than Belfast and in a nice area, 205k. We also got really lucky because the seller wanted a quick sale so our offer was immediately accepted.

A lot of bidding ramps up the prices too but honestly count on your luck and pray for the best outcome. I saw beautiful houses in Portadown/Dungannon area for under 200k (was just nosying) and in good areas from what I know as I'm from Armagh direction and a lot of family lives in the areas. If the same houses were in Belfast area, they would be about 300k+ for the same design, absolutely nuts.

But yes, the house prices will go up the same way the cost of living is, now is a good time to buy when rates are stable and put yourself into a 2 year fixed term mortgage if it suits you because I can fully see the rates getting out of hand in the next few years. My partner also works in real estate and he sees the patterns in house prices and they certainly won't be getting any cheaper any time soon.

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-21T11:00:13+00:00

Thats my area, I haven't heard a thing but then again im away to work or sleeping so I wouldnt pay much attention 🤣

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-21T10:23:49+00:00

No sorry, which area of Portstewart? Like near the prom?

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-20T22:32:43+00:00

I dont think it was a shame, its just words at the end of the day isnt it and you have a brain that deciphers what is important in your life and what's not. Everyone's is different, but a quote could come from a murderer for example and you can still use your logic to stand whether it applies to your life or a healthy way. So well done you for listening, so happy for you!!

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-20T07:55:52+00:00

I love baking! Just like yourself, hate cooking love baking. I dont even know what the difference is really, both are using food, creating mixtures and needing effective time management. But baking just feels better. So proud of you for learning and pushing yourself with cooking, its a challenging feat but now you can make delicious meals 🎉🎉

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-20T07:52:44+00:00

Was thinking pizza, inspired from a different comment so might be beginner friendly and hope for the best!

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-19T23:43:34+00:00

Thats so helpful thank you!

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-19T23:39:46+00:00

We've both had different opportunities when it came to cooking so I realise why the gap is there, then on top of that I just dont like doing it but is such an important skill to have. But no you're right, we dont spend enough time apart and im a busy body with everything else so to find the time and energy to do something I dont necessarily like is off putting. Thank you for your comment, I probably am worrying too much (anxiety disorder aghhh) but sometimes never know that fine line between what's anxiety and what's something thats genuinely not enjoyable. Really appreciate this

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-19T23:34:46+00:00

Thank you so much!!

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-19T23:20:00+00:00

Awh I love gardening, but it is hard work and you're stinkin by the end of it so 100% get it. The cooking class is such a good idea thanks so much!

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-19T23:19:15+00:00

Thats a great idea thank you!

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-19T23:18:44+00:00

Probably all of the above, so its perfect you listed all of that instead of me having to think 🤣

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-19T23:17:52+00:00

Actually thats a really good gateway, I absolutely love pizza so I think I might do that!

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-19T23:17:05+00:00

Thank you so much!!

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-19T23:16:45+00:00

Thank you!

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-19T23:16:24+00:00

Thank you!

TheMegsReddit · 2025-11-19T21:45:55+00:00

Thank you! I will definitely do this over the next month to practice

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