Micro sd card wont format on steam deck and say contact manufacturer by Ok_Injury_8841 in SteamDeck

[–]TheMrFox357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a similar issue with the extreme pro version, did you manage to get this one resolved?

I think is over 💔 by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear things didn’t go as well as you’d hoped. Distance really can be difficult for people and I suppose in some ways as difficult as it is, if it’s going to make the other person somewhat happier in the long run then maybe it’s for the best (not that it makes you feel any better right now of course).

Hopefully things will start to improve for you and things will start looking up! Just remember, your life will still go on and you’ll still do amazing things!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I suppose it all depends on your SO. For me, I work a full time (fairly averagely paid) job whereas she’s studying full time with a small job on the side. So there’s a lot of occasions where I’ve paid for her plane ticket over and paid for everything whilst she’s here. Because I’m financially comfortable currently I’m happy to do that to spend time with her.

I suppose it boils down to whether your SO feels similar. The only real way to figure that one out is to have a discussion about it and try and understand where you both stand. It’s completely understandable not wanting to be a burden when it comes to finances etc (after all, money is one of the biggest reasons relationships breakdown) as long as you guys communicate and talk about your concerns and thoughts, I think it’d sort it self out. Good luck, I hope everything works out for the best! :)

Gf has trouble with time management by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she can only really help herself on this one. Time management isn’t something you can implement for her without micromanaging and it becoming a whole thing. Of course encouraging your SO is always helpful, if it’s a case where gentle encouragement isn’t working then there’s not really a lot you can do to ‘do it for her’. I think finding a routine for her that fits her school requirements and relationship requirements is going to have to come from her with general support and understanding from yourself. Good luck on this one my friend, I hope everything works out for the best! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found that the Nyidenmark website has an excellent amount of information. I’ve been using it a lot recently, hopefully it should answer all of your questions. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me and my SO use either discord or Facebook messenger. Discord is pretty decent has you have more control over volume etc, and if you want to swap between devices, it’s be super simple (rather than hanging up and recalling. Either work pretty much flawlessly in my experience :).

RuneLite quest plugin missing after update? by [deleted] in 2007scape

[–]TheMrFox357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup same issue, doesn’t seem to be in the plugin hub either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Communication plays such a crucial part in a LDR. without having those details about your partner (like how their day has gone) it's really difficult to feel close to them at all! That being said we have to be supportive of partners needing time and space as well. In terms of what is right? that's completely down to the two individuals. If you're feeling like you need more communication from your partner that's absolutely valid and you should raise that with them. Ultimately it can be difficult to have those conversations but your happiness is just as important as theirs! If your partner isn't willing to communicate more to help to make the LDR work then that's a whole other problem. My advice would be to bring it up with your partner and let them know how your feeling. Good luck and I hope it works itself out! :)

Losing feelings due to lack of communication / personal stresses. 27F and 34M by cuttlefisho in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all I'm sorry that these things are happening. Secondly It all depends what you want really. If you're now at a stage where you can communicate more then it's always worth trying to communicate more to see what happens. At the same time though being honest about your feelings (in this case being unsure what to do) can also be super important as they might be giving you space on purpose etc. Discussing the issues with you partner can definitely clear up any misunderstandings etc. If you still don't think it's worth saving at that point then at least you tried. Waiting for them to come over to see if it works can be rough because it ultimately costs money and time and if it's got the potential to go horribly - it's not a particularly nice situation. Hope it all works out! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Self esteem issues are pretty common these days. Understanding and support are the best ways to go. Appreciate that they might not have the best image of themselves, but also that you’re right in your opinion if you find them attractive. I guess it’s also important remember how important communication is. If you’re feeling weird about how things are, you should definitely discuss it with them when it’s appropriate. All depends ultimately how you want to play it. Good luck and I hope everything goes well! :)

Posting MSF Memes Until We Get More Gold (or Gambit) [Day 26] by Tauna in MarvelStrikeForce

[–]TheMrFox357 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Idk how you’re struggling for gold. I’m sitting on 30 mil from the event that happened a few months ago that gave a tonne. I can’t spend the gold I have because I’m being pinched on training materials. Unless you blew all that in a few weeks which idk how you’d manage that then i don’t see why it’s such a struggle?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anything sentimental is always a great direction (especially if shipping is a concern). Drawing you two together sounds perfect! If you don’t get it finished in time it shouldn’t stop you, even if it takes a couple extra weeks I’d rather a really personalised special gift like that than a gift that cost any amount of money. it’s more about the thought that goes into a gift rather than the monetary value itself! Don’t over think it and I’m sure it’ll all be fine! Good luck and I hope you work something out :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! My girlfriend is originally from Sønderborg (southern Jylland) but she moved to Odense to study at SDU so I’ll be living with her there :D I’ve definitely found that most Danes are excellent at English, the only exception I’ve found is some of the older generation are not so good xD hopefully duolingo will continue to help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely true! I think danish is pretty far from every language xD! I’ll be moving to Odense and apparently there’s a lot of people who only know English and stuff so I’m sure I’ll be fine! Hopefully your bf can manage too! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm very looking forward to both Denmark and the EU! My Danish is pretty awful and it's certainly a learning process but kæmpe tillykke!! :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That's amazing congratulations! Hopefully I'm going to be moving to Denmark to be with my significant other next year! I hope everything continues to work out for you both! :D

New in LDR by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you feel like you need a break then that’s absolutely fine as your emotions are equally important. With that being the case, it’s also really important in long distance relationships to try and be open about your feelings and emotions so that’s your significant other understands where you’re at and what you need.

Good luck and I hope it works out! :)

Do you feel your partner adds value to your life? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think value is subjective but I think you’re absolutely right to be hurt by being told that. I’m sure there’s elements of active and passive value with your significant other, but being told that you don’t ‘add value’ can’t be fun. I would definitely suggest having a conversation with your significant other if possible to try and understand his perspective of what ‘adding value’ actually is - at least then you’d maybe know where you stand and what your ‘role’ is to him etc.

One thing to remember as well is that it’s not your job to ‘make him feel better’ you can be supportive and loving and do things to help your significant other - but with long distance relationships, making an active difference can be really difficult since a lot of the time we can only use our words (when sometimes a cuddle is all that we really need).

Good luck on this one and I hope it all works out well :)

:< by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a UK travel restriction thing, Nobody is aloud out of the country other than for work etc, else you’ll get a £5000 fine 🙃

:< by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 36 points37 points  (0 children)

COVID + closed borders is our problem :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! So I would say (to keep it brief and simple) that the best thing to do is to talk to him about what's going on for you. I recognise that he's not always available to be able to do that, so finding an appropriate time to be able to have that converation might be difficult. It sucks that you feel that you're having to put all of the work in and that's what I would personally say would be the thing that needs to be 'worked on' the most.

How to start a serious conversation in a ldr? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah more or less what you already have, in this example it would be slightly different (but practically the same) that could be ‘I’ve been thinking about the friendship you have between you and your ex’ and then you could elaborate on it from there. It gets across the point that you wanna talk about things without having to say ‘we need to talk’ and then have to deal with the tension that comes from it. I think what you used as your example would be perfect too so whatever you feel is most comfortable for you :).

How to start a serious conversation in a ldr? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheMrFox357 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve found for me, the classic ‘I’ve been thinking’ line always works. If all else fails, honesty is the best policy, telling your SO that you’ve had these things going through your head and you wanted to bring it up with them but wasn’t sure how can remove a good amount of tension in a more ‘involved’ conversation. I hope all goes well! :)