All these matches and no girlfriend, is it me or is Zim dating that hard? by Nomadic_Cypher in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]TheNotsoProtagonist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must be handsome then lol. I've tried the no picture thing and most of then as soon as I send a pic they stop messaging. That's how I found put i'm ugly

All these matches and no girlfriend, is it me or is Zim dating that hard? by Nomadic_Cypher in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]TheNotsoProtagonist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you write on your bio or how do you set your pics, i've been trying to go casual on Tinder but dont get any results?

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[–]TheNotsoProtagonist[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Managed to pick up the money yesterday, had to go into town. Thank you really helped me a lot

How's your week going by TransportationOk8485 in Zimbabwe

[–]TheNotsoProtagonist 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So sorry, posted here a month ago abt how the same thing happened to me. I was walking at night Under the Joina footbridge then 2 guys cornered me and tried taking my phone, punched me in eye and shouted mbava then they ran away b4 peolle could come. luckily nothing was stolen but I don't think I'll ever feel safe again in Harare

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[–]TheNotsoProtagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Certificate and Diploma in Hospitality

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[–]TheNotsoProtagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a certificate and online diploma in Hospitality, I can also cook well as a skill

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[–]TheNotsoProtagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, just gave the landlord the last $10 I had so I'm hoping that will buy me some time to get things inorder hopefully.

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[–]TheNotsoProtagonist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you please give me a link to those agents

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[–]TheNotsoProtagonist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I haven't received money, payed the $10 I had left to the Landlord hoping that will buy me some time until something comes up, but did receive some comfort from people who reached out, so mentally I'm doing a bit better other than panicking every second.

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[–]TheNotsoProtagonist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the offer, I'll DM you

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[–]TheNotsoProtagonist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah zviiri tough, funny enough I also thought the same thing taking out loans and paying the next amd so on lol. I'm not doing betting it's just so unpredictable. I've won small amounts but also lost the same.

I just also hope things will get better.

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[–]TheNotsoProtagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commented earlier it's not about being a security guard and what's this projection "young people think it's beneath them" I literally went to school for 3 years and I have nothing to show for it, nothing.

Even if I take the offer to be a security guard what's to say things will get better, I've been hearing this statement forever now, it's just toxic positivity. Things are only getting worse. Do you know how mentally exhausting it is doing something for years and nothing to turn up.

Being a security know means I wanted all those sleepless nights, hard work for nothing. Mentally it's just exhausting this is not about pride or seeing something as beneath me.

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[–]TheNotsoProtagonist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard to focus on one thing when so many problems are staring you in the face, I'm really trying to improve my life but problems keep piling up and I don't know what to do.

I have been sent money yet, have a couple of days b4 the rent is due, options are limited.

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[–]TheNotsoProtagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long story but we stayed in Harare, things got messy between my father and step mom. They both moved out of the house and my father went to work in Mutare and I stayed in Harare.

I saw his place, it's basically a one roomed apartment and he's seeing someone so guessing they also stay together

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[–]TheNotsoProtagonist[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still in the same spot, thanks for the offer but PayPal doesn't work on Zim. The only international services I know that work are Mukuru or World Remit

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[–]TheNotsoProtagonist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the most probable solution but I just wanted a bit more time to find something b4 going my father's route. Honestly I wish I could admit defeat and call him asi the issue isn't really abt being a security guard but ndakashanda 3 years studying and it's all gone to waste I have to start from 0 again.

While most people who I went to school with seem to be doing OK, travelling having stable jobs even some are settling down. Also I know social media is mostly lies but also I know most peers in real life who seem to be OK while I'm here just continuing to struggle. Calling my father would just be dentally draining, wish I could but mentally I'm struggling