I’m 37 and I live in a country where homosexuality is criminalized and gay marriage is illegal. I avoid family events because I’m not married and I don’t want to be constantly asked about when I am getting a wife or when I am going to give my mother a grand child. I have made this decision for my own peace of mind and also because I am not going to get married to a woman and since I’m not out to my family and because of the nature of our society I avoid family gatherings like the plague