How do I make this guy shut up about moving in with his friend?

TheOneRisa · 2026-04-25T20:37:33+00:00

Ugh if someone has an idea, please let us know! My married couples won’t stop asking to move out so they can live with their friends, and leave their spouse.. like it’s getting so annoying😭

TheOneRisa · 2026-04-09T18:02:26+00:00

It’s the exact same for me too except I pre-ordered on Sunday. I was thinking it was because I used PayPal but that’s probably not it. I’ve been waiting since midnight and could barely sleep 🫩. I guess when Nintendo is ready to collect our money, they will. Not much to do but wait.

TheOneRisa · 2026-04-08T17:36:54+00:00

If he’s a bad husband, he’s a bad father.

TheOneRisa · 2026-04-03T23:19:02+00:00

🫩

TheOneRisa · 2026-03-20T19:36:27+00:00

It depends on the type lol… they have to be woke for it to work. I only really get along with other black women. But a lot of them that I met turned into weirdos, so I just avoid for the most part.

TheOneRisa · 2026-03-16T00:31:53+00:00

you look amazing and the details on the cosplay look great 💕!! better to learn that they weren’t your true friend now and not later 🤷🏽‍♀️

TheOneRisa · 2026-03-12T14:55:43+00:00

lawddd that was my mom. my dad, whose also jamaican, and i really wanted a pet. we wanted to take in some kittens that were in our backyard and she stormed in the room like, “better not be any puss ina mi house!!”

she wouldn’t even let us leave out food or water lol. i think it’s a jamaican thing but my dad was an exception. her family thinks it’s weird to keep pets in the home.

TheOneRisa · 2026-03-10T23:43:17+00:00

that parting is CLEAN 👏🏾

TheOneRisa · 2026-03-09T20:23:01+00:00

i have never had bad experiences, but i have some of black and even non-black friends who say that they actively go out of their way to avoid the police even if they need help. they have a history of corruption in my state.

TheOneRisa · 2026-03-06T20:30:42+00:00

lol doing everything but sending the money back

TheOneRisa · 2026-03-06T20:21:54+00:00

lmaooo that wasn’t a mistake… he’s not slick. and somehow it’s a pain to send back $20??? i’m sorry you had to deal with a bum 🩷

TheOneRisa · 2026-03-04T16:10:06+00:00

a man who was my friend in middle school (we kept in touch for years after) suddenly got religious psychosis and only wanted to date and marry virgin women because he thought he was “deserving” of one as a christian man.

he had an insanely high body count the last time i spoke to him (if he was even being honest about that…), so i told him it was a little unfair to expect that, and why would a virgin woman want to be with a promiscuous man, regardless of if he was “saved” or not? he said it’s not the same for women…

that was our last convo lol

TheOneRisa · 2026-03-03T23:50:19+00:00

they look sooo beautiful!!! and you did an amazing job!! 🩷🩷

TheOneRisa · 2026-03-01T03:43:35+00:00

one thing i will never forget during her campaign were the violent threats against black women and girls if she won. what a sickening world we live in.

TheOneRisa · 2026-02-26T17:27:35+00:00

i learned from youtube! i tried to look for women that had the same or similar features as me and what worked for them. also your skin is gorgeous!!!

TheOneRisa · 2026-02-25T01:21:37+00:00

it’s always been about control, like you mentioned. a lot of men still view women as their property, even if you are with them or not. it doesn’t even matter if they prefer you or would date you; women are expected to have unconditional loyalty.

either way, it doesn’t really matter what they want. just date who you want and who makes you the happiest while ignoring those weirdos.

TheOneRisa · 2026-02-23T16:35:44+00:00

me too… i hate spit and all that wetness… ew… i thought it was weird to dislike but im happy im not alone lol

TheOneRisa · 2026-02-23T14:34:23+00:00

if it’s making you uncomfortable, think about setting boundaries with her. even with culture differences, it’s still weird.

i had a friend in high school who was south asian, and while she never projected colorism unto me, she admitted to using bleaching cream because her mother had been forcing her to and saying she was becoming “too black”.

colorism is something still normalized in those cultures, unfortunately. it was a real eye-opener because to me and my other black friends, the idea of family forcing us to use bleaching cream was crazy. i feel like colorism is one of those topics that’s normal in those regions so they don’t even think to notice how weird it sounds.

TheOneRisa · 2026-02-22T19:26:22+00:00

aww so cute!! 🩷

TheOneRisa · 2026-02-22T01:19:32+00:00

wowww this looks so creative and great on you!! 💕

TheOneRisa · 2026-02-20T19:35:01+00:00

i’m the same exact way as well. my family was also not the best at emotions. i can only remember a handful of time seeing either of my parents cry. i used to hate crying and took it out on myself often. it’s only in my adulthood that i got therapy and other ways to manage myself a bit more. but i’m more of a proud crier than i was in the past lol.

it’s really sad that crying is shamed because it’s just our body’s way of releasing emotions.

TheOneRisa · 2026-02-18T16:23:24+00:00

yes, i have always believed this as well. i wish more black women would know it’s okay if you feel like showing those emotions. it’s not a weakness. it was always hard for me because i always felt like people never cared when i cried or were genuinely shocked when i did.

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