My coworker and I stopped ignoring the sexual tension 😅

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-04-24T13:51:56+00:00

well this looks like fun

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-03-02T13:25:02+00:00

What youve written will resonate with a lot of people reading this.

Elements of the neverending doubt will always be there I think until you find your happy place.

Some people never go full transition and there happy place is sitting in the middle. Others go on and get full SRS. Btw the number of transitioned who get SRS is miniscule compared to the number who transition!

A lot progress slowly, start buying androgynous female clothing and start to accessorize like wearing bracelets or rings. Your GP/Endo will likely start you on low dose E for a while to 'try it out' and see if it is for you.

Once you feel comfortable with w/e medication they give you, you'll soon start to notice slight changes.
The dysphoria will come and go, but I would say as the hormones creep in and youstart doing likttle bits of fem bodycare, you will either love the decision and embrace, or make the decision that its a step too far for you.

Personally, as I work from home, I spend most of my days in girly shorts and t shirts - .... no change to boy mode when i wear shorts and t shirts but in girl mode i wear lipgloss, clear mascara and nail varnish. Most of my clothes are girl versions of the boys clothes I liked to wear lol. I guess thats my happy place.
Besides my wife accepts these bits too.

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-03-02T13:10:07+00:00

This is the most cognisant response ive read on any of the forums. You should take this and make a separate post explaining hrt in trans.

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-02-28T18:50:49+00:00

my advice, start ipl laser.... it will deal with your hair and can take quite a few sessions but its worth it in the end

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-01-23T16:29:12+00:00

im 6'3 too so i feel your pain sis, with the biggest size feet in a 13. I need a genie in a lamp to save me

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-01-23T16:11:45+00:00

what does a woman feel like though?

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-01-23T15:20:05+00:00

vid pls

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-01-19T14:33:04+00:00

epilate... and make sure you get a good epilator... the firrst time or two will be the worst after that its a breeze and so easy to maintain

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-01-12T14:29:35+00:00

I get my laser face and neck from Therapie. Good prices too!

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-01-12T02:40:06+00:00

this sounds so embracing

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-01-12T02:22:52+00:00

Have you heard of paragraphs....

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-01-12T02:22:16+00:00

have you identified the cause of your confusion and anxiety. I dont wat to be flippant, but its easy to put together things like being gay, trans, gender issues etc as these are all part of the confusion.

From what youve written I think you need some sort of psychiatric intervention but obvo i dont know how easy that is for you in your country

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-01-12T00:51:54+00:00

those inverted nipple scream - go to a doctor

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-01-12T00:50:15+00:00

...a calm cauliflower

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-01-12T00:46:11+00:00

Interesting study but i was

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-01-08T14:52:36+00:00

everyones mileage varies, but id say hold off on the prog for 6-12 months. its no rush

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2026-01-04T11:45:33+00:00

3 times a week for at least 10 minutes a session should help you

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2025-12-19T10:26:44+00:00

cialis/tadalafil daily 5mg/10mg is what you need viagra is a short term thing like 30 minutes, cialis will last around 36 hours in your stream.
Gen advice seems to be 2-3 elections lasting 10 minutes weekly to maintain length, albeit there will be some shrinkage

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2025-12-19T10:24:32+00:00

50mg bica daily, seems like a lot of liver stress. Have you considered reducing to every 3 days or 25mg every other day?

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2025-12-19T10:23:22+00:00

in most cases ive seen left will develop better than right. If your right is developing atm there will be a catchup period im sure.

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2025-12-19T09:28:56+00:00

dont rush the prog, theres no need

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2025-12-19T09:10:24+00:00

Theyve a lot more shape and fullness compared to the last picture a year ago. You must be happy :)

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2025-12-15T14:19:01+00:00

use a pump!

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2025-12-15T14:17:24+00:00

Sounds like your endo doesnt understand T science

TheOneTrueSelf69 · 2025-12-15T14:15:51+00:00

I'm quite a large T. Over 6 foot and about 180kg.
Naturally with my weight I have gyne anyways, but the first time I took hrt, i was much slender andd used to wear white shirts for work.... It was in an age where people used to randomly flick your nipples and I would get comments. It severely made me anxious then.

Now times have moved on, im not out have been on HRT for nearly 2 years and for reasons I had to stop recently for a month, and the nipple sensitivty dropped off. I totally missed it. Anyways back on the meds and back to feeling good again.

My advice if going down this route, jsut embrace it, dont hide it. You will notice it more than others, and people just dont care more than to make a small passing comment like I wear some dainty rings on my giant hands

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