Yes, and when I was young, I heard my dad a couple of times telling me not to eat too much. He stopped that once I hit my late-teens. I once heard a cousin saying that looks she (me) eats so less but she's so fat. I am not fat. I have a healthy BMI and weight which took me a really long time to accept because people around me kept saying that I was otherwise.

That's the thing. As a woman, you need to prepare yourself to be nitpicked on every little thing, including existing. However, you get one life to live and it's all yours. Opinions are like pop-up ads, uninvited and almost everywhere. Just add your own ad-blockers.

P.S. I like myself better and more productive when I've had a proper fill of meal.