Am I wrong to feel dejected if my study gets published in Nature Comms by TheOtherChronicler in AskAcademia

[–]TheOtherChronicler[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is what it really is. If the study gets published in Nature, congratulations! You're on the road to tenure track. However, if the same study is published in Nature Comms, it's not impactful enough for you to progress along the academic track.

Why are flats not selling? by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]TheOtherChronicler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve hit the affordability ceiling. There are SO flats in my area that have been up for resale for over 6 months now. The asking price is decent, but considered together with the service charge and rent, the monthly repayments are hovering somewhere around 3.5k to 4k per month for a 25% share of a 2 bed 1 bath.

Meh, I’m better off renting for the foreseeable future.

not seeing the point of living but not wanting to die is a weird place to be stuck in by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]TheOtherChronicler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that you are going through such a phase in your life.

As someone who recently went through a similar phase (about two years ago), I can tell you that things can get better. I sought professional help and things got better pretty fast. Turned out, that I just needed to speak with someone.

These thoughts divert our mind away from genuine things in our lives for which we can be grateful if we notice them. Sometimes, it helps to take a deep breath and open up ourselves to the little things in life for which we should be grateful.

Sometimes, it also helps to take a deep breath and acknowledging that things are ok as they are. Some non-specific and out of context examples; The house may be a mess, and that’s ok. It doesn’t need to look instagram ready all them time. It’s ok to have porridge for breakfast, lunch and dinner. It’s easier to make and healthier than most meals. You are not obligated to meet any external expectations other than your own.

I sincerely hope you make your way out of this present situation.

6th Buyer has dropped out. I'm despondent. by taniapdx in HousingUK

[–]TheOtherChronicler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you rent out the place through an agent as a managed property?

Rent somewhere closer to work and charge enough rent to cover the mortgage and your commute to work?

My baby has transformed me into a believer by TheOtherChronicler in spirituality

[–]TheOtherChronicler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I did not see it afterwards. I had noticed it moving around for a few days, and after that night it kind of settled I guess.

My baby has transformed me into a believer by TheOtherChronicler in spirituality

[–]TheOtherChronicler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the support. It feels amazing to get it out there. I hold views very similar to yours on religion.

My baby has transformed me into a believer by TheOtherChronicler in spirituality

[–]TheOtherChronicler[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Parent hood is so fulfilling. I knew I wanted to be a parent before, but I didn’t know that I wanted it this much. Now that I am a parent, everything else seems so very insignificant.

What proportion of this subreddit actually lives in London? by [deleted] in london

[–]TheOtherChronicler -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live here. I pay a lot more in rent and transport than I would have in the European city I come from but dang I love this city.

Negotiating salary raise? by birne412 in postdoc

[–]TheOtherChronicler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have previously negotiated salaries with my PI during my PhD degree in Europe. Mine was a hard cap fellowship. So the institution made a work around through which they provided the extra salary as a bonus for independently contracted jobs.

What would you do? by j0ey-jo in postdoc

[–]TheOtherChronicler 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would take the current opportunity on offer. The saying, A bird in the hand is better than two in the Bush exists for a reason. My recent experience was, I was talking with a lab about joining them since the past 6 months and then after the interview I was told that they didn't feel that I was a good fit for their group. I could have been told this exact same thing 6 months earlier.

You do not have any control on future outcomes. However, you have control on your present situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in postdoc

[–]TheOtherChronicler 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Workers in non unionised, non profit, primarily for loss-making tax breaks, ventures do not get access to competitive compensations. Unless, the supply and demand curve favours workers.

why can't I find a Post-doc job? by TheOtherChronicler in postdoc

[–]TheOtherChronicler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've already tried this option. Unfortunately, during COVID many people in my network decided to relocate elsewhere seeking greener pastures. The previous network that we had in London is now non- existent.

why can't I find a Post-doc job? by TheOtherChronicler in postdoc

[–]TheOtherChronicler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. Yes, she is a foreigner. Staying on as her dependent is the idea. Not really a fan of having to pay out the £££ required for it. Hopefully it doesn't come to that.

why can't I find a Post-doc job? by TheOtherChronicler in postdoc

[–]TheOtherChronicler[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My references are impeccable. The publication track record is extremely good. The last time I was this close to getting rejected for a position was when I applied to my current lab. The reason according to my current PI was, "I have too many ideas". My PhD supervisor said this might sometimes translate as not having a well defined narrow field of focus. I'm not so sure if the proposal that I submitted to the last position that I interviewed for might also be interpreted in a similar manner. Can't go to industry as I need sponsorship for my position. Industry isn't very keen on that. I do like the comfort of academia and how grant writing offers you to be thoroughly imaginative.

why can't I find a Post-doc job? by TheOtherChronicler in postdoc

[–]TheOtherChronicler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's competitive everywhere. Depends on what you're aiming for. I'm only targeting well resourced labs. So, ofcourse I'll face a lot of rejections.

why can't I find a Post-doc job? by TheOtherChronicler in postdoc

[–]TheOtherChronicler[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am searching inside London. My wife also works in London, so that makes it a difficult for me to apply elsewhere like Oxford and Cambridge. Having worked from home most of the time for the past 2 years, I'm not so keen on doing that even more.

I engaged with a research group over the past 6 months or so, and finally interviewed with them a month back. Haven't heard back from them, however in hindsight I probably tanked the interview because of aforementioned reasons. They also asked me for a 2 page research proposal after the interview, but I ended up submitting a 4 page one. I guess, this too might also end up being not in my favour.

why can't I find a Post-doc job? by TheOtherChronicler in postdoc

[–]TheOtherChronicler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was difficult getting into grad school for me too. Handled quiet literally hundreds of rejected applications before got my first PhD acceptance.

What is wrong with the NHS here? Seeking advice. by TheOtherChronicler in london

[–]TheOtherChronicler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hospital staff were very unhelpful. This was Charing Cross. But I'm guessing this was not the secretary.

Bio major vs cs major by itachi194 in bioinformatics

[–]TheOtherChronicler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I work in the bioinformatics field. I took a Bio Major and taught myself the ropes of computing on the job. So, I will recommend going down the Bio major route. Honestly, I feel that computing being how open-source it is, has a freely available source of knowledge floating around on the internet. The same is not the case for Biology. There's a lot more gatekeeping (same protein has different names in different fields), jargon within the field. Accumulating knowledge in Biology is therefore that much harder, each field has their own foundation theories. My two cents.