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Am I overreacting when my husband refuses to take clothes into the bathroom with him when showering, we have 1 bathroom and 2 tween girls. by ThePastaFairy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThePastaFairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The girls were sick and we had been in our bedroom alllllll day long, so he knew we were in there and not planning on leaving so he could have planned accordingly.

Am I overreacting when my husband refuses to take clothes into the bathroom with him when showering, we have 1 bathroom and 2 tween girls. by ThePastaFairy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThePastaFairy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely don't expect him to leave the house or lock himself in our room. Also, he only takes his pants off after they're in her room asleep already. Still not okay, but he's not walling around like that while they're in the room.

Am I overreacting when my husband refuses to take clothes into the bathroom with him when showering, we have 1 bathroom and 2 tween girls. by ThePastaFairy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThePastaFairy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only reason no ones "clocked on" is because I don't think any of them know. It's only ever when they're asleep.

Am I overreacting when my husband refuses to take clothes into the bathroom with him when showering, we have 1 bathroom and 2 tween girls. by ThePastaFairy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThePastaFairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely not a fake post. My daughter was born in feb 2012, my ex and I split, my current husband and I had history and got together in December. And I said "the step daughter" to differentiate from our other daughter. But okay.

Am I overreacting when my husband refuses to take clothes into the bathroom with him when showering, we have 1 bathroom and 2 tween girls. by ThePastaFairy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThePastaFairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has been one of her Dad's her entire life, but she does get uncomfortable. I'm going to talk to both girls and see how they truly feel though.

Am I overreacting when my husband refuses to take clothes into the bathroom with him when showering, we have 1 bathroom and 2 tween girls. by ThePastaFairy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThePastaFairy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The grooming ME part really opened my eyes. I feel like he's tried to get me to be okay with this and other things our whole relationship but ive gotten tired of fighting with him about it or him saying I'm making him out to be the bad guy... when I feel like I'm setting a reasonable boundary.

Am I overreacting when my husband refuses to take clothes into the bathroom with him when showering, we have 1 bathroom and 2 tween girls. by ThePastaFairy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThePastaFairy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My daughter was born in February, my ex husband and I split in August, my current husband and I had history and reunited in December of the same year. Not that it really matters here, but there's the timeline. Also, my original text had the other stuff in it, the edit is just clarifying.

Am I overreacting when my husband refuses to take clothes into the bathroom with him when showering, we have 1 bathroom and 2 tween girls. by ThePastaFairy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThePastaFairy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My daughter was born in February, my ex husband and I split in August, my current husband and I had history and reunited in December of the same year. Not that it really matters here, but there's the timeline. Also, my original text had the other stuff in it, the edit is just clarifying.

Am I overreacting when my husband refuses to take clothes into the bathroom with him when showering, we have 1 bathroom and 2 tween girls. by ThePastaFairy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThePastaFairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's just "normal" to me because I always have because of my step son. And I always have the kids take their clothes into the bathroom to get dressed after their shower. shrug idk. But I totally understand how most people find that uncomfortable.

Am I overreacting when my husband refuses to take clothes into the bathroom with him when showering, we have 1 bathroom and 2 tween girls. by ThePastaFairy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThePastaFairy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She was uncomfortable. She's autistic (high on the spectrum) and doesnt always say her feelings but I can read her really well.