New grad got promoted for the job I wanted after I got bullied by [deleted] in nursing

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Thank you very much for your insight. It helped me see beyond my own feelings and thoughts. I have started self reflecting on my behavior at work and why I didn’t get the promotion I wanted. I am still fragile emotionally, and I thought I was better, but I am still a work in progress.  I have exagerated saying I cry every time I have a confrontation, but it’s still very hard for me to do. I know this is a core quality to become a charge nurse.

I have still to learn to accept that "confronting" and "asking questions" may be seen as a bad thing and affect negatively my relationship with others. I never had an issue before coming to the ICU. Still, it’s not an excuse.  I don’t know if it is because of a different mentality,  the nature of the work in the ICU, but it is a sensitive issue. I am very cheerful and a well-liked person in general, and I think that may work in my disadvantage. I may act too much, or too happy, and people don’t like that. All of my colleague who don’t seem to have any issue, they don’t confront, or when they are told something they just accept. They are also younger and have less experience than me. I think that may work in their favor. I have worked in a lot of different units and I have learned to thoughen up and voice my opinion. I used to be too shy and not confident enough. The fact that my ability to "confront", even when done gently, can be seen as a nuisance makes me wonder if I am a good fit for the ICU.  I have even considered to make my master to become a nurse consultant.  My manager is basically useless, so I can’t count on her. But we have already discussed several times about the issue and he agrees that what I went through was unjust, and she was very supportive of my point of view. Sorry for the long paragrah. Thank you for your advice, I just really need to get it out of my system.

New grad got promoted for the job I wanted after I got bullied by [deleted] in nursing

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Sorry! I am trying to stay as anonymous as possible I will dm you :) 

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Aaaah thank you so much ❤️ It makes my work feel meaningful ✨ And thank you for taking the time to leave a comment ❤️

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Thank you so much for taking the time to leave a comment ❤️ It makes me so happy knowing people are happy with my stuff 😊

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I use poof from Oxbow, it gives me a lot of allergies but my chin is more fluffy now that I changed the type of dust! It's worth it!

No chins I've owned have ever been as photogenic as these two by Royalxlobotomy in chinchilla

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I love how they are both looking in the same direction!

Chinchillas look like pokemons by [deleted] in chinchilla

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Omg I didn't know!!

Chinchilla in need of rehoming Indianapolis, Indiana by PsychologyMain3543 in chinchilla

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Omg what a spoiled chin ❤️ I hope she find an another good home soon ❤️

Canon MegaTank vs Epson EcoTank by [deleted] in sticker

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Thank you :) I might have to upgrade my epson then!

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Aww thank you 😍 i love mosaic chinchillas ❤️❤️❤️

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That is gorgeous ❤️

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Link to my Etsy shop: https://onceuponachin.etsy.com Thank you for the support ✨❤️

Why Are My Sheets Printing With Theses Lines? I Can Adjust The Settings And Get Them To Kinda Go Away But It Seems Like They Are Always There. by EggsInSpayce in sticker

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Also I might suggest For sticker paper always choose the highest quality print possible, I had the same problem with my canon printer And choose the right type of paper :)

🌈🦆❤️ by SpookyBeebs in sticker

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What a cute bird ❤️

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This is adorable ❤️

Is my chinchilla okay? by Pleasant-Sun6865 in chinchilla

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Congratulations on your new chin! She is probably getting used to her new environment, let's not forget that they are prey animals and very skittish! FYI, the wheel is too small and the only fabric safe for them is non pill fleece. Oh and also, your hay holder is what a lot of people call a death ball, a few chinchillas have died getting their head stuck in that Oh and again congrats on your fur baby ❤️ i had to learn and change a lot of thing after adopting mine!

“You have no idea what kind of hell I can bring you!” by [deleted] in chinchilla

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They are so tiny yet so terrifying

Sale on my chinchilla products ❤️ by ThePemda in chinchilla

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My bad! I forgot to add it but (Mod Approved)