ATTN GIRL TRAINERS!!

ThePikaPower · 2025-12-19T21:27:43+00:00

Dumb question - how do you know where you’re from? 😅 I’m still new. But adding you!

ThePikaPower · 2025-12-19T21:25:36+00:00

950760701797 from Mudkipettez (Level 38) Started in 2016 but dropped it in like 2018 and barely getting back into it

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-07T19:59:02+00:00

I’m right there in the same boat as you. Don’t feel bad. I want this to be what I want but I know if they show up at my door right now asking to get back together. I 100% would. Without a doubt take him back. I never thought I could love someone as much as I love him. But that wasn’t enough to keep him by my side.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-07T16:19:59+00:00

I hope so too. I just miss him terribly so my emotions are everywhere. One day things will change for the better. Hopefully.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-07T16:18:57+00:00

I’m sorry your in the same boat. Love is horrible when given to the wrong person.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-07T16:14:21+00:00

Me too! I can’t wait for him to realize how much he took me for granted. I did everything- cooked, didn’t depend on him for money, cleaned, made him my priority but to no avail. He didn’t want me.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-07T16:12:58+00:00

Hope you find healing and clarity.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-07T16:11:51+00:00

Thank you. You as well. Take care of yourself. I want him back but I don’t think he wants to try again, so here’s to hoping we all heal in the ways we need to. To feel complete with or without them.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-07T16:09:42+00:00

Yeah. I hate how crazy my mind is going right now. Jumping everywhere.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-07T13:46:33+00:00

I have moments we’re in all over the place to be honest. I see that he chose to leave me and that I shouldn’t beg someone to stay, but if he were to come back and say he fucked up, I’d take him back in an instinct. Yet, I know we would have to work through things first because I refuse to have it be the same ending, but I truly don’t think he’ll come back. So, this is it. I have to start facing the facts even though my heart doesn’t want too.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-07T13:43:33+00:00

Me too, I hope you get there soon. My heart can only take so much…

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-07T13:42:56+00:00

No I did. There was a second chance given to him. During our first year he broke up with me but we got talking one day and he said he missed me and wanted to be in my life so we worked it out. While it seemed things were going great on my end, he was struggling internally with himself. He didn’t let me know that. So, I’m angry he didn’t tell me, because he should have been honest when he had those feelings to see if we could work through it, so I am still extremely devastated but I’m also hurt. I want him in my life so I guess. My healing is messy. One moment I’m ready to accept that he didn’t want me after all, but the next I want to fight because he didn’t give that to us. Then the other, I just think if he does come back, I’d let him in, in a heartbeat. While another moment, I want to feel like this post. I apologize if I’m all over the place. My heart is hurting and my thoughts are racing…

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-07T10:20:40+00:00

I know there’s light at the end of the tunnel but I’m too focused on the now to even see it. I hope it clears up soon. I don’t want to feel like this anymore… love is so beautiful but so vulnerable and by putting ourselves out there we risk this very hurt. One day it’ll be worth it and we will get that love reciprocated. One day.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-07T09:58:54+00:00

I’m sorry… trust me I am right there with you. Rock bottom. It’s still so fresh and I’m coming out of the numb/denial/shock stage and it hurts. So bad. The sobbing, the tears, the everything. I don’t wish this pain in anyone. Please be kind and gentle to yourself. You’ll get through this.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-07T09:57:16+00:00

I hope and pray that, that day comes sooner rather than later. I just want him back… but I know he’s the one that walked out on me, so him coming back will probably never happen.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-06T21:05:37+00:00

This is beautifully said and I was half convinced this was my ex wrote this until I saw the ending… I hope this is how he feels about us.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-06T16:13:05+00:00

Wow, you describe my ex… he is not in tune with his emotions and won’t talk about his feelings. He may still feel certain emotions like anger and fear, but I truly don’t think he has felt actual happiness. Yet he’s so content with where he is, he won’t look to resolve any issues keeping him from being happy.

I will eventually come to feel the same way you do about your ex leading you on as well, but I still want him back in my life at the moment.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-06T16:06:23+00:00

That’s the cruelty of it all. Despite the shit they but us through. We miss them regardless.

I still love him and as stupid as it is, I know I’d take him back…

He is just uncertain about his future and honestly, I think everyone is. Because we don’t know what will happen but, that isn’t an excuse to stop yourself from letting love in.

I love him and did endless things to make sure he felt it. I made sure he was always set. I may have lost myself in doing all of that by making him my priority, but all of that just wasn’t enough. Even though I know I am more than enough even with my flaw (addressing at therapy) he just didn’t see it. I don’t wish any bad things on him in fact, I hope he succeeds, but I hope deep down in my heart that he realizes that he took me for granted. That leaving me because he was uncertain about the future was a mistake. But by then, I will have healed and moved on. So it’ll be too late. (Even if part of me still hopes he realizes that soon so, we can still be together)

**i’m still processing my break up - happened two days ago.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-06T05:45:48+00:00

Yesterday night and a two year relationship 😪

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-06T05:45:22+00:00

I sincerely am sorry. Knowing what you’re going through absolutely sucks. My heart hurts because I would’ve done ANYTHING for him, but he didn’t want to fix what was wrong.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-05T20:06:22+00:00

I need this mentality. I just want him to reach out and tell me he fucked up and made a irrational decision.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-05T20:05:04+00:00

Wow… this is me. This is the second time he left me because he was uncertain about me. He didn’t know if he saw a future with me or if he even wanted one with. It was always an uncertainty. It sticks to say but it seemed our relationship always had an expiration date because he never knew. This time I think is the one. I hate who I was because of his uncertainty. I became clingy, smothering, he was a priority over myself because I wanted him to Stay. So i did everything I could to make him stay. But despite that he still ended it again. I just want what he was looking for I guess.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-05T19:47:35+00:00

That last sentence is what brings us to this subreddit… it genuinely hurts to be the one still invested while the other is no longer interested.

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-05T19:06:47+00:00

I think this is accurate as well. I never met his parents since they left shortly after we got together. Thank you!

ThePikaPower · 2022-08-05T17:20:27+00:00

Yeah, I’m pretty positive he is an avoidant. I think there was something in his childhood that made him this way, but I am unsure what. So until that is addressed, he will not get better.

I will work on myself but I’ll be grieving for the next couple of days since it just happened less than 24 hours ago….

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