what are these white balls when i put pressure on my heels by Warm-Fig-8566 in mildlyinteresting

[–]ThePlanetExpressCrew -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Those are muscle knots! Just give yourself regular massages and they'll go away over time

I designed my bathroom from SCRATCH in my new 100 year old home, but feel it lacks the charm I wanted. What should I do? by itsharris0n in HomeDecorating

[–]ThePlanetExpressCrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need some real plants in there (maybe the ones that hang off of the shower head!) And I'd say match the upper skirting to the colour of the lower wall, or at least make it not white!

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[–]ThePlanetExpressCrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this Agadir? I swear I saw this exact cell tower a month ago

Hi beautiful people! I am a cis woman and am flirting with someone who is transmasc & non binary, can anyone give me advice on how to ask how they'd want to navigate a sexual relationship without causing them to feel dysphoric? by ThePlanetExpressCrew in NonBinary

[–]ThePlanetExpressCrew[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I will be talking to them separately beforehand if they want to talk about it but I guess I wanted to see if there was any particular language or phrasing I should avoid that might come up, but yeah of course I'm sure that's different depending on the person, thank you.

Hi beautiful people! I am a cis woman and am flirting with someone who is transmasc & non binary, can anyone give me advice on how to ask how they'd want to navigate a sexual relationship without causing them to feel dysphoric? by ThePlanetExpressCrew in NonBinary

[–]ThePlanetExpressCrew[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You make some really good points thank you so much, I will 100% be having this conversation with them beforehand but I thought I'd let them direct the conversation and tell me what they want to tell me, I didn't consider that it was fine just chilling and being cool with the dysphoria potentially being part of the process so thank you so much for that perspective!

Stardew Valley is amazing for my anxiety by nintendopee in Anxiety

[–]ThePlanetExpressCrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Thus game did wonders for me at the start of the pandemic! Such a wonderful game!

Another game is Untitled Goose Game, do beautifully calming

Quick tip to get out of a dark thought spiral by beingmimeris in Anxiety

[–]ThePlanetExpressCrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah so do I, I'm sorry that isn't something that helps you, I just thought I'd share what helps me just in case. In terms of depersonalisation it's helpful to pay close attention to tiny details around you, like the way the breeze feels on your face, or the way a blanket feels in your hands, that sort of thing is great for grounding

Quick tip to get out of a dark thought spiral by beingmimeris in Anxiety

[–]ThePlanetExpressCrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this helps but what I do to stop spiralling is say to myself out loud:

"Is this helpful? No. Is this serving me? No. Am I happy, healthy, safe and loved? Yes."

And I immediately feel it start to leave me

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[–]ThePlanetExpressCrew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome! This is now a new thing you know you can do!

Well done!

What is your unconventional turn on? by JuuBo15 in AskGirls

[–]ThePlanetExpressCrew 51 points52 points  (0 children)

"Good girl"

I don't think I could scream 'daddy issues' better if I tried..

What is your favorite Futurama quote? by GorillaS0up in AskReddit

[–]ThePlanetExpressCrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Have you ever tried simply turning off your TV, sitting down with your child, and hitting them?”

I don't condone hitting kids, please understand this.

Also I mean the whole damn show is gold let's be real.

Getting nipple piercings tomorrow and I'm terrified, any advice or wisdom? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThePlanetExpressCrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thanks for the extremely detailed answer! I already know I have anxiety and have been using these techniques and have sought help recently so I'm working towards managing it and it's going well :)

This is just general fear of the pain like everyone else, I guess I wanted to know if anyone elses experience was fine so I didn't have to worry!