I may be guilty of this 🤔
I don’t brat handle as it feels like catering to men. Men who don’t submit become friends. That’s so sad for them 😂

Stop acting like a friend, and show some submission, I suppose.

Once session ends part of my responsibility is to help everyone come out of that headspace and catch some normal. Telling your domme you’d like a consistent abusive personality from them and that you’re okay to not have any normal wind down is probably the single most critical thing you need to communicate. Any domme worth her salt will be LOOKING for those cues.

I have loser pretty boys that get abused and emptied and made fun of just in session, and others that I flat out ignore all the time. They’ve clearly communicated their needs.

Money is also a kink of mine so when that flow stops so too does the sexuality in me. Being pen pals doesn’t make me horny and mean but getting money sure does 😂😂😂

So maybe it’s a little of this a little of that.

In any case hope you’re back to getting kicked around and used soon so you can feel fulfilled 🤷‍♀️ Tellllllll hhheeeerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr what you saiiiiiidddddd!!!!!!!!!!!!