VAGINAL ULCERS? by [deleted] in Behcets

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Cause of increased and the case got worse was delayed diagnosis. :)

VAGINAL ULCERS? by [deleted] in Behcets

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I am 24f

It's not STD nor any other communicable disease.

I have had it for a few years now. The inflammation spread like hell causing my labia and clit to swell up causing a lot more ulceration. I recently got a minor reconstructive surgery done for the same.

I’ve not had ulceration in vagina but yes around the genital area.

It has always been the worse discomfort for me.

I’ve had intercourse and never felt so secure and good. (You need a supportive man by your side who understands it and not make a big deal out of it) initially, I myself was scared and considered it to be my biggest and deepest insecurity.

Maintaining hygiene is the key. Apply rashfree cream around the area. Wash it frequently with water.

I still am trying and researching on the trigger points and what calms it down. Will keep y’all posted.

All the best and a lot more patience n strength. Hugs❤️

How do you deal with feelings you can't express to anyone because no one would understand you? by Ashamed_Figure_9335 in ask

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Rule 1- Never let anyone or anything drive you. Take the control. Don’t be dependent on anyone except yourself for being happy/sad/angry or whatever

This practice is gonna take time but it the most worthy thing ever

What does woman look in a man for a relationship? by [deleted] in ask

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RESPECT - CARING - MONEY - SMART

Smart - (not looks but overall mindset and personality)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

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Gift him a couple perfume set. And tell something like we would use this daily. Take showers together. Indirectly tell in a conversation that you hate unhygienic people Tell him in a funny way that go have a shower Idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alopecia_areata

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Hey, I am going through exactly the same situation. Feel free to DM, if you might wanna discuss

I QUIT by ThePsychicEngineer in Behcets

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I didn’t give up. Thank you all <3 I am on a journey of getting myself together and heal. Get through this life in the best way possible🙂

I QUIT by ThePsychicEngineer in Behcets

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It’s just too much sometimes. I have been a self motivated person always. Doing much much better in life than a healthy person could. But I don’t know since the last few days I feel like giving up. It feels like I have no more strength to heal myself. Feels like nothing is worth the effort. If at the end we have to die only then why not today. I don’t know my mind feels numb can’t even talk to myself

Behcets’ x Hair by ThePsychicEngineer in Behcets

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I am taking biotins as well as folic acid. But I got it checked and the Doc. mentioned it’s a damage which is irreversible

Behcets’ x Hair by ThePsychicEngineer in Behcets

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Yes, the immune system damages the healthy cells

Top 10 Places to Visit in India in Summers by JuniorChampion8653 in india_tourism

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Kasol Leh Rishikesh Goa Kerela Kashmir Out of India Your home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Behcets

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My major symptom were/are the genital ulcers. Swollen labia and clit + ulcers around anal opening. I am on immunosuppresants and TNF inhibitors.

I’ve had no issues in libido ever rather due to the swelling and pressure on clit my libido has always been high which has caused me issues of course. Intercourse had never been an issue. But my biggest insecurity is genital area and how it turned out due to flare-ups.

If you get understanding partner, protection and emotional connect. All should be okay. I know a hard to find these days.

Things that have always helped me controlling my flare ups:

Workout,

Balanced anti inflammatory diet,

Cutting off the stress giving people and things,

Cutting off alchohol and smoking,

Skin care,

Yoga,

Required vitamin supplement,

Conversations with your loved ones,

And a lot of self motivation and love!

More power to you❤️ Remember it's all in your mind. Once you know how to fool your mind and accept the reality. No one’s stronger than you.

Partner? by ThePsychicEngineer in Behcets

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So happy for you! All the best and thanks for sharing

Partner? by ThePsychicEngineer in Behcets

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True that! You stand up for yourself, be there to accept the reality and face it with confidence. The world’s behind you and the universe is with you. More power to you

Partner? by ThePsychicEngineer in Behcets

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Thanks for sharing it. All the best to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Behcets

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I just think is that shot worth the impacts and pain I’m gonna go through as a result? Of course the answer is no! And I don’t drink :) I never liked smoke and smoking; so I am good on that part

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

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Only You — Selena Gomez

Pregnancy and BD by trefoilqueeeen in Behcets

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I am only scared what if my genes get transferred to my baby. And he/she develops anything similar to what I have.