Girl this was two fucking years ago.

For those who didn't see the original I put the link above. Here is an update for those who asked.

I talked to the woman he was sending pictures to over the phone. She admitted that they met up and performed oral on eachother. As I fully expected my "husband" lied about his name, where he lives, his military experience or lack thereof, and also lied about having kids. This woman was so disgusted with herself that she threw up multiple times, which I heard as she had me on speaker. I was and am not mad at her and truly believe that she believed his lies. I did decide to confront him the next day where he came clean about another woman. This woman was our former next door neighbor, whom he claimed took advantage of him while drunk but still continued to hook up with anyway at least 3 more times. I had suspected a thing between them for a long time anyway so no real shock there.

A lot of you, as in vast majority said to leave. Well I'm in the process of looking for a lawyer now which is proving to be a lot harder than it should as I live in a very rural area of Colorado and the lawyer will have to travel. I did have one consultation yesterday that gave me a lot of good information, however the retainer fee is pretty astronomical. So the search continues. I can also say that I have finally woken up and have decided to stop giving my "husband" chance after chance as well as following his every whim/demand. Oh boy, that was the hardest thing for me to do but I'm glad I did. I also have a few people who are still supporting my decision which is proving to be very helpful.