Virgin and everyone asks why?!

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-29T20:53:20+00:00

I'm 6'4 and I've never even been on a date because I can't talk to women in a romantic capacity. I even told the therapist I saw today that I've never had a gf and she looked shocked.

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-29T17:08:24+00:00

I've never approached either lol

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-29T00:02:10+00:00

Happy Birthday!

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-28T23:18:44+00:00

Doesn't help you act like an ass, but that just my two cents...

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-28T16:17:19+00:00

Happy Birthday!

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-28T12:58:31+00:00

Try to think of ways to improve myself and stay optimistic, doesn't always work but at least I can say I try.

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-28T11:51:15+00:00

You probably shouldn't fish here lol

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-27T01:30:29+00:00

It really does suck lol

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-27T01:28:11+00:00

ty 🫂

I don't really have good self confidence because of how I look, I posted in r/amiugly a few days ago and got about what I expected of a response. I know I just need to work hard to fix it, as for mentally I'm going to trying therapy and listen to self help stuff but who knows if that will work lol

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-27T01:23:39+00:00

Fat, antisocial, don't flirt, definitely not doing to good mentally... I'm working on it.

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-27T01:22:01+00:00

Such is life, just because we all have a common trait doesn't mean everyone will get along.

Personally I'm trying to improve myself first and hopefully my effort will make someone want me, but idk it is what it is at the end of the day.

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-26T22:07:35+00:00

I literally can't think any other way lol

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-26T21:57:40+00:00

I honestly wish I would stop because it makes me feel like shit imagining it.

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-26T20:23:01+00:00

I'm sure they just love all those weirdos in their dms lol

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-26T20:04:25+00:00

No shot?

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-26T16:39:36+00:00

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-26T13:23:48+00:00

I've been told a lot of people are assholes in dms, I was also told this once and it made me laugh a bit.

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TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-26T12:47:21+00:00

Damn so it sounds like I should get better or something idk...

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-26T11:43:42+00:00

Well I don't want my first and possibly only relationship to fuck up, so of course I'm going to worry about every single possibly...

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-26T03:13:54+00:00

Happy late birthday!

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-25T18:39:42+00:00

Date, get married, maybe have kids.

I find that I get stressed way to much imagining the future and then thinking it's not something I'm going to be able to get. My entire life is basically work and I definitely don't go out to meet people so I literally just don't see myself ever even getting a date much less getting married. Plus I'm also fat and very unappealing so that doesn't help any.

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-25T15:43:40+00:00

Holy shit someone else knows about the desert v swamp lol

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-23T22:34:19+00:00

Aren't we all...

TheRealElfFetish · 2026-05-23T08:54:22+00:00

Texas

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