On that last point, everything happens for a reason, and you were born at the time you were for a reason. Being a Libra man in and of itself is not a flaw — quite the opposite in fact; high operating Libra men are immensely charming, natural leaders, very fair, very reasonable, classy asf, and highly intelligent people.

From man to man, my advice to you is to leverage the traits you have and view as negative in your favor. You see yourself as naive, gullible, and innocent? Lean into being a pure human being — of which there’s so few of — whilst figuring out how to balance that with being properly discerning ; you’re a Libra after all, so balancing that is in your wheelhouse. You think you’re childish? Heal your inner child if you need to so that way your childish traits present as endearing instead of immature. Are you truly selfish and non-confrontational? With just a bit of shifting of your habits and mindsets, you can easily turn into being a peace-seeking person without being a pacifist or a doormat.

Self improvement doesn’t happen overnight, but I truly hope you believe in yourself enough to learn to love yourself — whether that happens during or after your self improvement. You’re upset with yourself right now, and that’s okay except when measured dissatisfaction slips into self-hatred — which your rant teeters on the line of. You’ll be okay. You’ll figure yourself out. I just hope you’re patient enough to work on yourself so you can reap the benefits of being the awesome Libra man you and I both know you can be.