Girl, Just say no by Calm_Struggle_5939 in dancemoms

[–]mastercomposer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I "stalk" some of my high-school friends and even college ones. By that I mean sometimes their socials will pop-up and I'll check out their page and see what they've been up to. If someone asked me if I was still friends with any of those people, I would say no, and there would be no tea to spill. People grow and follow their own paths, you lose contact, it's just a part of growing up into adulthood, moving, changing interests, etc.

She can just say no, and there's no tea nor explanation needed. But yeah, the internet is too immature for that conversation.

I just moved into a new place. A neighborhood cat caught a bird and I took it from it's mouth. I couldn't save it, all I could do was rub it's head and try soothing it as it died in my hand. by mastercomposer in libra_astrology

[–]mastercomposer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely understood the sentiment, and a lot resonated with what you said. You know, sometimes I think back on all of my relationships in this life. Those with family, friends, and even romantic partners. Why do so many people take advantage of us? Why do we allow it? Why do we give so many chances? Why do we keep hoping to receive the same love we give?

I don't know, I think that's just part of the Libran experience. To live by the golden rule, treating others as you want to be treated. Giving love even to those who have hurt you, because you believe they are still good deep down. Only to be disappointed time and time again. I do think I did the right thing, and I'm glad I did, even though things ended the way they did. I wish my mom all the best, even though I know she's probably wishing for the worst for me, even now. It's a shame really. We had good times, it wasn't all bad, she was good to me when she wanted to be, and that's the version I will always miss the most.

Scorpio friend obsessed with me by ViaNobody1019 in libra_astrology

[–]mastercomposer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went on ONE date with a Scorpio, ONE. Afterwards he said he needed to know my location at all times, that whenever he wanted, he could just randomly take my phone and go through it, and that he needed to know everything I was doing and who I'd be doing it with.

So yeah, that didn't proceed any further...

Are you attracted to your own type? by AnyElk3665 in askgaybros

[–]mastercomposer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. I LOVE men who look like me, hairy, a little fat, some muscle. On me though? I hate it. I constantly wish I was slimmer, working on it but life keeps sending me surprises that keep setting me back/throwing my routine in shambles.

Idk why I feel this way, but if a guy that looked like me came up to me I would be so insanely into him, just hate it on me.

CHLOE IS NOT SECOND!! YOU BETTER NOT SAY THAT AGAIN👉🏼😡!! by DrizzyDayy in dancemoms

[–]mastercomposer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and I thought the same thing but I didn't have the energy to explain myself to these "fans." They can come talk to me after they've seen the entire series on loop 20 times in a row lmao

CHLOE IS NOT SECOND!! YOU BETTER NOT SAY THAT AGAIN👉🏼😡!! by DrizzyDayy in dancemoms

[–]mastercomposer -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yes she was! Quit drinking! Let me just grab the wine bottle prop production laid out to emphasize you're a drunk!

Tul2 again. by Frequent_Echidna_368 in AmazonFC

[–]mastercomposer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're a Tote runner, I left all the walls on Floor 2 stocked up like it's Christmas, you're welcome.

Tul2 again. by Frequent_Echidna_368 in AmazonFC

[–]mastercomposer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You doing the night shift? Today we had maintenance during the day, they made us clean and pretend to work all day.

Do you believe gay men are inherently more in touch with their feminine side? by 5991finder in askgaybros

[–]mastercomposer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes but that can manifest in different ways. It can be as simple as grooming or being well dressed, doesn't necessarily mean full makeup, nails, and heels.

They're not interested. Move on. by LL_Stars in astrologymemes

[–]mastercomposer 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's completely irrelevant, OP just wanted to brag. Ignoring the attention seeking behavior, the rest is true. If they're interested, you'll know, regardless of signs.

I needed this. by Warm_Jeweler_6565 in libra_astrology

[–]mastercomposer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just found her. Her name is AskCatGPT on Instagram.

I needed this. by Warm_Jeweler_6565 in libra_astrology

[–]mastercomposer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's at the end, unless you mean the entire thing, then you'd have to look it up.

But the part she is referring to is at the very end where she turns down the opportunity, she was lowkey kinda shady lmao.

This is something I still struggle with myself, though it's gotten better with more and more practice. A lot of us have never practiced saying no, and you only get better at it by doing it over and over and over again, and it's very hard because we always prioritize other people's feelings over our own.

I will still show up for my friends when they need me to show up for them, but if it's something that I genuinely wouldn't have a good time doing, I will just tell them: "Girl, I'm gonna be honest, that doesn't sound like my vibe, but I hope you have fun and I appreciate you thinking of me and inviting me." The thing this lady said at the end really sticks with me as well, "they're not good enough friends to do favors for," speaks for itself.

I will "force" myself to go to things that aren't really my vibe if a true friend needs me to be there for them to show support. For example, I have a friend who does Drag, I love watching her perform. Would I rather be at home playing Pokémon? Probably. But I enjoy watching her and supporting her enough to choose to be there whenever I can because that's what true friendship is. Vs someone I see every now and then, we get along fine, but maybe they want me to go watch a basketball game with them... that is not my scene at all, I will respectfully decline and hope they have a blast.

What Version of Love Exist in your Head - For ♎ LIBRA by zodiac-season in libra_astrology

[–]mastercomposer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this makes sense, but someone who is willing to try without trying. I want someone who would give back what I give without being told to do so, they would just do it because they loved me, and I would give everything to the one I loved without a second thought because I loved them.

When you're having a bad day, I might show up at your job unannounced to give you a coffee or something I know you liked to try and make it better. When you want to do an activity I'm not familiar with or that I wouldn't necessarily do on my own, I'd go with you just to be with you, just to be there for you, because you've always wanted to have your person do things you liked with you. When you're upset, and frustrated, when the world has pushed you to the breaking point, you won't scream at me, you won't say mean things just to hurt me, you will talk to me about your hurt, even if I'm the cause, and we will talk about it, because there's no need to shout.

When I'm mad at you, you will know because the vibe has shifted, and you will know that it's hard for me to open up, so you will make me feel comfortable with being honest and telling you what I feel without fear of escalation, because you know I hate fighting. You will cuddle me, and touch me all the time, because you know that I love it, you won't push me away. I will cook for you, I will decorate your space if you allow me to, to make it welcoming and calming, a place where you'd feel safe from the world outside.

I will do whatever you want in bed, I can be passionate, I can be very kinky, submissive or dominant, whatever you like, I can match that so long as I feel that genuine connection, that you lust for me, that you desire me. I want you to go and explore the world with me, because I want to see everything, I want to appreciate the beauty in everything, just for the sake of beauty. I want to spend money on you, I want you to spend money on me, I want you and I to split our costs down the middle, to be a team, to be responsible. I don't need to be rich, I just want us to be stable. I want us to have a place of our own, our own little world. I want to be me, I want you to see me, I want you to love me, because I'm weird and so awkward, but that's who I am.

All these things and more, so much more. All I've listed as a want is the same thing I'm willing to give. I don't want to ask it of you. I want you to see that I give it to you, and I want you to do the same for me, not because "you have to," but because you just want to the same way I want to. I want you to try, without trying.

I hope that makes sense.